(short version) shes staying over, I want to shag her, its my last chance,

[MrNiceGuy]

(short NEW INFO) shes staying over, I want to shag her, its my last chance,

Ok.. I posted a mammoth thread on this with practically every little detail of the background on my relationship with this chick here.

I guess no one could be bothed to read it all.. time is running out though and I want advice.. so, as concisely as possible.

Chick I've had the hots for for quite a while is coming to stay at mine thursday and friday night (wanna know why read the frist couple paragraphs of the other thread), This will be the last time I see her really as we're both moving away at the weekend.
My gut feeling is, she may possibly be up for some infidelity, although if she likes me she either doesnt consciously realise it, or hasnt admitted it to herself..

The friday night we will be going out, and most likely both be steaming drunk.. then of course we return to my place..
I am very very very tempted to try it on.. no AFC declaration of love for her or anything, just let her know I like her and then try to get into her pants...

Whats the best way for me to try and do this? I'm talking both ground work on the night out (eg. should I try and DJ other girls to get her jealous?) and general moves to make and conversation once we get back to mine.. obviously EC, kino, kiss, but what about the timing and so on?
Finally any tips on how to best go about it so I avoid awkwardness if she knocks me back?

Thats about it.. for full in depth knowledge read the other thread here

 

[Walden]

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[Walden]

Hey MS , interested to see how you do here as I'm considering a poach myself in much the same circumstances.

From the sounds of things you've caught a vibe off this chick. Poaching means she's gonna have mad anti-slut defense up.

I'd keep it as light as possible "jokingly" flirt with her the whole night , bust some kino and by the time you get back to yours it should be obvious what's about to go down (hehe).

Good luck and good hunting.

 

[MrNiceGuy]

thanks dude..

trust me, whatever happens I will be posting an update, its sure to be an interesting night, and If I do bottle it, I'll probably stiill end up posting to try and analyse why I wussed out.. plus be looking for hints that It could have happened if I'd not wussed out..

if she didnt have the bf, I'd have tried it on months and months ago (or at least I like to think I would have).. if you read the bits of the other thread you'll also realise why I think shes not 100% happy with him, and under the right circumstances may be up for the ONS.

But I have no real idea if she considers me a suitable sex partner or not.... I have the feeling she suspected I had the hots for her awhile ago, not sure if she still does.

Like I said, if anythings going to happen, I'm going to have to make the first move, if I give her anytime to consciously think about whether its a good idea to kiss me and so on, her anwer will be no.. If I use any words that make it obvious what I'm trying to do, I'll need to go for the kiss immediately and hope she responds..
Also need to be wary of not letting her think I am madly madly in love with her, better that she just thinks I'm feeling horny..

 

[MrNiceGuy]

quick update

... If I believed in god I'd really thinking he was just pissing about with my life for sh*ts and giggles to watch me squirm...

She SMSed me this afternoon, for no reason, other than she was bored.. shes only ever done this once or twice before, back when we were both revising for exams

then this evening she calls me to arrange meeting tommorow.. but not with her phone.. her boyfriends phone cos she has no credit.. still she doesnt seem concerned about running up a 15 minute mobile to mobile call on her boyfriends mobile, that will probably cost him about £6.

And what does she say? well I've got no TV in my house at the moment, so, its.. "we need to find something to do on thursday night, and I dont wanna go out drinking" well I can sure as hell think of something .. and there was me thinking she was going to meet up with her old housemate (shed told me earlier she was) no.. shes decided to blow her off to spend the evening with me.

I also found out earlier that her mum had offered to pay for her to stay in a hotel (nothing fancy mind, a travelodge), but still, free hotel accomodation and she picked me..

I dunno, I want to believe I'm the subject of a scheming female mind thats trying to arrange a night (or two) of passion away from her boyfriend, but past experiences and all the AFC in me still makes me think I've already been locked up in the friend zone.

Anyway, any ideas for cool things we can do tommorow night, in particular anything that will get her horny, or thinking about me in a sexual way.. I have some DVDs we can watch on my PC.. (but nothing that involves a woman cheating on her bf and living happily ever after) ..... I have porn on there too.. but thats not coming out unless I'm already laughing,
Apart from that, plenty of CDs, a radio, a camera, pack of playing cards, some dice.. I'm also thinking we'll both head to the supermarket.. get a bottle of wine and some food, cook up a nice meal together..

any other ideas?

 

[Cremasta]

The last time you are going to see her? What have you got to lose?

When she said "we need to find something to do on thursday night, and I dont wanna go out drinking"
and your silent response was "well I can sure as hell think of something". Next time one of these wisecracks pops into your head... say it. Say it with a smile, but say it anyway.

I don't know how it works for others around here, but that is the easiest way for me to deliver some C + F. Let the inner smart alec out.

Hope you score.

 

[Julian]

Dude dont go confessing your feelings to her, since your not going to be able to build on them anyway.

You have to make sure you game is on point. BUY SOME CANDLES DUDE. These will set the mood and she will know whats goin down when its you 2 alone with candles lit.

Dont blow this man, with all the signs it seems nearly impossible. Your concerned about your inner AFC, well this could be a problem. Hmm

 

[princelydeeds]

Princelydeeds recipe for getting laid every time:

Cook dinner
have a large bottle of Zinfandel (yes its cheap but chicks love the sh!t)
Rent a movie that you know for sure is watchable.
after eating watch the movie pull out the desert.
Damn I forgot you dont have a tv, hmmmm... get sum good music (playing card games works too, whenever she loses tell her she owes you a kiss or has to take something off) mke sue the music is something you know she likes preferably something sexual.
Make sure to keep her glass full of wine!!!!!!
after the dessert is done make sure she is on the couch (or floor i like to put a blanet and a whole bunch of throw pillows on the floor)
put your arms around her and hold her firmly.
Rub her slowly, and while having pleasant convo kiss her neck.
Sooner or later she will turn around and kiss you back.
hopefully you will know what to do from there.

 

[MrNiceGuy]

thanks for the tips guys..

but it didnt work..

it was clear from when she arrived that she wasnt planning to try and seduce me, on the thurs night we went to the cinema, but she invited some other guys along too, then on the friday night, we were out drinking all day.. I got far far too drunk, (although she was just as pissed as me) and it all kicked off, see here..

http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&postid=331638#post331638

I think maybe.. it would have worked, especially if perhaps shed had a major argument with her boyfriend before she saw me.. but there wasnt really any long period of alone time in the house for us while she was here..

 

[Julian]

That sux =(