"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Short men should get included in DEI

MatureDJ

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Here's a primer on this woke meme:

Here is a government regulation about who qualifies:

(2) Evidence of individual social disadvantage must include the following elements:

(i) At least one objective distinguishing feature that has contributed to social disadvantage, such as race, ethnic origin, gender, identifiable disability, long-term residence in an environment isolated from the mainstream of American society, or other similar causes not common to individuals who are not socially disadvantaged;
Being a short man is a distinguishing disadvantage that keeps him isolated from the mainstream hetero-sexuality, and this is not common to tall men.

(ii) The individual's social disadvantage must be rooted in treatment which he or she has experienced in American society, not in other countries;
Indeed, in most of places in the world, a man's shortness is much less of a burden.

(iii) The individual's social disadvantage must be chronic and substantial, not fleeting or insignificant; and
Viewed as no suitable to date by most women is "substantial".

(iv) The individual's social disadvantage must have negatively impacted on his or her entry into or advancement in the business world.
It's well known that Chads get hired at a much higher rate for customer-focused roles - and getting one's foot in the door is the most important step to building a career.

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Interesting. Short, White men are such low priority for DEI.

If you're a short, non-White male, you might qualify for DEI.
 

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Here's a primer on this woke meme:

Here is a government regulation about who qualifies:


Being a short man is a distinguishing disadvantage that keeps him isolated from the mainstream hetero-sexuality, and this is not common to tall men.
By this logic, both necro and zoophiliacs oughta also be included in DEI. After all, a "power differential" exists between them and those of us who copulate only with live human beings...

Us "normies" can speak openly about our lovers, and engage them in PDAs to our heart's delight. They, by contrast, are compelled by both law and societal disgust to indulge themselves strictly in secret :)
 

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As far as marginalized groups go - short men are absolutely an untapped corner of the victimhood Olympics.

Best not to tell this to the lefties; we don't need to go giving them more voters.
Best not to encourage any other demographic in The US to think of themselves as "a marginalized group". It's bad enough that Men's Rights Activists have conned a substantial number of guys of all heights into believing that they're oppressed by Gynocentrism
 

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They're technically right though
In the same way Feminists who assert that The Patriarchy is preventing THEM from progressing personally and professionally are correct, yeah. We moderns excel at hiding behind empty fuzzwords
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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