"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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what is it with couples going together shopping?

school just started and ive been going to stores getting what i need, and my style is just that....get what i need and get the hell out of the place, in less than 15 mins im out of any store no matter how crowded it is.... but latley ive been seeing a TON of guys with their gf in stores just looking around, taking their time, blah blah blah.... what the ****? is shopping evolving into a mans activity as well.... Even my best friend who claim he hated it goes and spends all day at the mall with his gf...whats going on?

do any of you do this?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Austizzle

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Eh I do this, I will admit, I have sinned.

I do make sure I get something out of it though
 

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you think thats bad.... brace yourselves.... i enjoy shopping. there i said it. i dont know if its just cause its getting out of the house or hitting on the cashiers or acctually getting clothes:eek: dont be hatin just telling it like it is. one plus for takin my time is more chicks to spot out and aproach
 

mrRuckus

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Originally posted by undesputable
what is it with couples going together shopping?

do any of you do this?

I go shopping with my gf the same reason she goes to my softball games.

Ok those are completely different reasons.. but anyway..

I don't mind shopping. We have things to talk about while mulling about and i go into victoria's secret with her and she listens when i say what to get.

I like being with her. Almost any activity can be fun/better if you enjoy the company. What's the big deal? If you hate it, don't go then, but some of us like our girls beyond just sex.
 

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Well it depends, are you there for her things or is she there to help you pick out stuff?

Its a GOOD idea to take a girl or a girlfriend along shopping with you to help you pick out stuff if you have absolutley no sense of fashion yourself. That way you end up with stuff that you know girls like the type you took along with you find attractive.

Sure at the end of the day you might have to spend a few minutes looking at some things she wants to buy too, but thats a small price to pay for getting invaluable fashion advice.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I have to agree with IamJoeDirt on his point.

I went shopping with my girlfriend for clothes before. And I admit that I have ZERO fashion sense. But after an afternoon with her I got a complete new wardrobe. She was even nice enough to buy me a couple of designer t-shirts as well. When I was out with friends clubbing or drinking I ALWAYS got complemented on my clothes by other girls.

Another plus was the privacy/public nature of those changing rooms. She jumped at the chance to get in there with me.
 

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I guess some of your points are good, like i can understand a couple going together to get something they both need, so that can be taken out of the way while having good company....

what i dont understand is taking your gf to get advice on fashion... why get almost a whole new wardrobe based on what one girl likes.... yea sure some other girls may like it too but after youre over with the one that helped you choose your clothes, if another girl comes along she might not like how you dress and shell change the way you dress all over again.... and that can go on and on.... why not get your own sense of fashion and not let any ***** that comes along change you?

i thought thats what girls went shopping together for...get advice from each other and discuss if the little shirt will draw her attention.

anyways now i can understand this happening in certain cases, but i still dont understand in certain other cases.
 

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I love shopping. I love looking my best. If you don't like shopping, that's your thing.

If you want to take a girl shopping, do it. Alpha males do whatever the **** they please.
 
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