“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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shopping with them?

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Looking for ideas on how to avoid the "shopping blues" with the chicks. When shopping, I've noticed this is one more time they make a power grab.

Basically, referring to a night out with her, that turns into a shopping nightmare, by power grab. Then of course you get home and she's too tired, you know. Absolutely worn out.

Ideas, guys...
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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I don't understand what you mean by power grab. I go shopping with my wife all the time, then again I like to shop and I like clothes.


That's one of the advantages about being "good with clothes"or "having style" i'd always when I was single get plates / girls to take me shopping with them and i get to watch them change into **** me pumps and skirts and ****
 

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Say you aren't going. But honestly, have something else lined up....don't just sit home with your thumb up your ass. Be busy. If you aren't, it's going to drop her IL.
backbreaker said:
I go shopping with my wife all the time, then again I like to shop and I like clothes.

That's one of the advantages about being "good with clothes"or "having style" i'd always when I was single get plates / girls to take me shopping with them and i get to watch them change into **** me pumps and skirts and ****
Whatever dude. All that does is make you a metrosexual. Men don't "shop". Men go buy what they need. Women "shop".
 

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Avoid that shıt like the plague. Do anything instead.
 

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Shoppings not bad. You gotta let a girl have a little fun every now and then. its jsut about being able to say its enough and move on to something else. so take your girl out, let her browse around a couple hours and buy some things, then say enough shopping for now and go somewhere else. also limit shopping to 1, 2 hour session per month. Lol thats all i can take personally.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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backbreaker said:
I don't understand what you mean by power grab. I go shopping with my wife all the time, then again I like to shop and I like clothes.


That's one of the advantages about being "good with clothes"or "having style" i'd always when I was single get plates / girls to take me shopping with them and i get to watch them change into **** me pumps and skirts and ****
By power grab, I mean going and wearing ourselves out doing her thing, then coming home to no sex, ("I'm too tired")... On our "night out". Let's face it, that should include some nookie afterwards, parent's night out is a date, in my mind.
 

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I'd rather shovel cow sh|t than go shopping. Drive her to the store if you want and then sit in the car and take a nap or read a book or something.
 
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