shooter guy in virginia

[joekerr31]

so it comes out today the dude went in there to shoot his girlfriend, she was the first one shot. apparently she was cheating on him or something.

yet another idiotic tragedy all because of man/woman relationships.

 

[Mindtrust]

so it comes out today the dude went in there to shoot his girlfriend, she was the first one shot. apparently she was cheating on him or something.

yet another idiotic tragedy all because of man/woman relationships.

That is serious stuff...

Heart goes out to the family's and friend's of the victims..

Mindtrust

 

[ElChoclo]

The really sad thing is that this is probably the only place on the internet where anyone has figured out what the root of the problem is. The fact is that society does not give a sh*t about the individual suffering of men due to maladaptive behaviour, even when the adverse consequences of that suffering become evident.

If this guy had just committed suicide, his problems would have remained his problems, quietly ignored.

 

[Victory Unlimited]

You're right, ElChoclo.


This is all a terrible tragedy, that could ALWAYS happen again, unfortunately.

No one but people like US will ever see that the root cause of this is PROBABLY the result of a man's emotional OVER-INVESTMENT in the wrong woman.

And I define THE WRONG WOMAN as either, him having picked the wrong woman from the start, OR him having opened his heart too prematurely to the RIGHT woman.

One lesson we can take from this is clear:

NEVER invest too much emotionally into a woman UNTIL you have SEEN consistent evidence that she is investing JUST AS MUCH of herself into YOU.



Peace...one day.

 

[Paradox]

There is already a running thread for this discussion in the AE forum

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=121962