Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Tweek_1984

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What footwear do you guys have?

Does anyone have any decent peacocking shoes?

Post pics.

These are mine, not really peacocking though:



also these ones but in the mens style:

 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Everybody and their emo mother wear Chuck T's in my city. They're too cliche for me. I prefer shoes that are more "urban." I have some white on white K-Swiss, a couple pairs of Jordans, and a pair of Converse Pro Lo's. I also have a pair of And 1s like the ones Vince Carter wore when he won the NBA dunk contest in 2000.

I usually wear the K-Swiss or Converse when I go on dates and stuff. For going out to the mall or something like that I usually wear the Jordans or And 1s.
 

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I have a pair of metallic gold Chucks, the rockstar color keeps me from looking too emo, especially in tight clothes.
 

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i like the urban lookin shoes and basketball shoes. i got some jordan 20s, nike hurache 2k5s, some forces, phat farms.....iono how much attention girls really pay to shoes but i sure feel good in some fresh kicks:D
 

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timberland steel toe boots, lugz sneakers, addidas black/white shell toes, lugz wallabees, timberland brown slip on shoes, and some black leather square-toe slip on shoes i forget who made them

and tommy bahama sandals


:-\
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Mac_Laaarry

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I really think people underestimate the importance of footwear, your shoes and their condition says so much about u, well atleast to women. From experience 9/10 times the female will look at your face, if shes is atleast a little interested she goes straight down to your shoes, if their on point then she comes back up to your face, if their not then they look away. I keep 2 pairs airforces ( black and white ), a pair of jordans, a pair of timberlands, and a pair of walabees( imagine that 2nd pic u posted) and pf course 3 pair of sharp dress shoes. Your shoes must stay in great condition when they start to wear replace them, with this line up i have a pair for any outfit. Keep up with trends and remember some shoes never go out of style ( air forces timberlands) so chose wisely shoes can get pricey. Appearance is sooo important with attractive women and presentation speaks volumes.
 

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Are Timberlands not a bit too gangsta? I think they are for me, especially since I'm white.

When people talk about peackocking shoes, I don't really think of timberlands or nike air jordans, I think more loafers or something along those lines.
 

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Originally posted by seanchai
Peacocking shoes...

http://www.georgecox.co.uk/creepers.html
": The George Cox creeper is as fashionable today as it’s always been"

hahahahaha nice

Are Timberlands not a bit too gangsta? I think they are for me, especially since I'm white.
no, u cant run from the cops if ur in timberlands, theyre too heavy. gangsta = being able to stomp someone AND not get caught. i got the steel toe timbs and i cant run for **** in them.

just dont get the wierd design/colored timbs. get one of the classic colors and styles

boots aren't really peacocking shoes.....
 

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Originally posted by Soprano
": The George Cox creeper is as fashionable today as it’s always been"

hahahahaha nice



no, u cant run from the cops if ur in timberlands, theyre too heavy. gangsta = being able to stomp someone AND not get caught. i got the steel toe timbs and i cant run for **** in them.

just dont get the wierd design/colored timbs. get one of the classic colors and styles

boots aren't really peacocking shoes.....
tru but i can see what he's saying that not all people look good in timbs. i dont think u can go wrong wit air forces tho....
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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