"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I used to own a pair of Doc Martins and recently bought a new pair of black Rockports. These shoes were not cheap (both in the low $100 range)

My friend says both of those shoes are "old people" shoes. A 28 year old like me should not be wearing those. Is he right or is he just being opinionated like he usually is.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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It doesn't matter what shoes you wear, as long as they are clean. In one of the male magazines (forgot the name) it said, the highest percentage of women (forgot %, but i think it was around 40%) said that they prefere leather penny loffers.
 

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Originally posted by whyshy
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It doesn't matter what shoes you wear, as long as they are clean. In one of the male magazines (forgot the name) it said, the highest percentage of women (forgot %, but i think it was around 40%) said that they prefere leather penny loffers.
penny loafers? i am pretty sure thats BS, unless it was AARP magazine or something.

there are really cool slipons and loafers, i wouldnt call them penny loafers though.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I don't think you can qualify them as "shoes for old people", but sure they are damn too dull, not the slightest once of originality.

It's definitely NOT a pair that projects a youthful image of yourself.

It's basically very common looking shoes with a "Rockport" stamp on them.

I used to have a pair of Rockport shoes, although nothing breath-taking, it was still pretty original and youthful looking. So Rockport doesn't equate to dull and old as a brand.
 

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Originally posted by Egoist
yeah those are your basic bland chump shoes.

they are fine for work and stuff though.. just don't expect anything more from them...

btw, these are the only shoes i might wear from what rockport has on their website.

http://shop.rockport.com/product/in...&cp=1760345.1760380.1760404&parentPage=family

http://shop.rockport.com/product/in...1760429&page=3&pageBucket=0&parentPage=family
Those look like dress shoes to me, not something you would wear everyday.
 

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Doc Martens are punk as fvck if you wear them right. The 14 eyelet boots kick ass. Rockports are really boring. Kenneth Cole shoes are pretty boring too and generally not well made. But I wear bright shiny gold leather Chuck Taylors, so maybe my opinion is a little skewed.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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In what settings and what attire are you going to be wearing these shoes. That's a fairly big issue when it comes to the selection.

I like kennith Cole for clubbing but If I'm going to be mobbing around town walking alot I'll wear a pair of sketchers just becaue their insole is more comfortable.
 

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Originally posted by mahon83050
Those look like dress shoes to me, not something you would wear everyday.
what are you, 12?

you can wear nice shoes with jeans or slacks or whatever.. it depends.

i usually wear shoes that are more peacocky and look more upscale/etc..
 

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If I could walk around barefoot and impress the ladies, I would, but than I would probably get athletes foot, and a bunch of fungus, so I'll take style and comfort anyday.

Give me a $10 pair of shoes and make sure I'm gellin, makes me happy right now! Waste of my time to keep going back and looking for good lookin $10 shoes though since they of such low quality, and I ain't paying no $150 for a pair of adidas or skechers, the liars that they are, through their teeth even, I hate the brand name companies. Nike is still loyal though, so I still where those to the gym, I'm sure people have gotten bored of wearing the same pair of jazzed up sneakers for the last 16 months though...

Anybody know of some good cross trainers that are useful? I know already that it is NOT "the shoes that make a man." So you can spareme the niceties.
 

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Go to military excess stores. They sell good quality stuff.

Alternatively, specialist hiking stores with a good rep (ask local hikers) sell good quality stuff.

I've brought a pair of $50 hiking shoes, and they've lasted me 2 years. I've gone through wet beaches, sand, jagged rocks, mud, etc.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Originally posted by diplomatic_lies
Go to military excess stores. They sell good quality stuff.

Alternatively, specialist hiking stores with a good rep (ask local hikers) sell good quality stuff.

I've brought a pair of $50 hiking shoes, and they've lasted me 2 years. I've gone through wet beaches, sand, jagged rocks, mud, etc.
Nice, I have really got to make a 'have got to check something out, because I need to to be smart' list.

Military excess store, there's tons of stuff in those places ain't there, You guys told me check that place out the first day I joined here in August, thanks again, hopefully I will actually kick my pants enough to move to warmer climates.

Thanks diplo.
 
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