"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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ArcBound

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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If you buy those shoes I will walk where ever you are and slap some taste back into your mouth. god i just hurled looking at those things.


friends don't let friends walk around in sketchers
 

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LOL. I'm too old for those. I assume you got the rest of the look to go with em and you know girls who like those sort of guys right? Hate to sound conformist...but if you want the hot chics...copy what the guys who have hot chics are doing and do it better with your own style. Fvcking sheeple tactics, but dammit that's how people are. I used to be "different" in my style and I only got different chics who I didn't want...crossed over and went mainstream and my game tightened up. Good luck.
 

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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PodclgA5PGg "it's a well known fact vans get you no play"

If that is the look you like and the type of girls you wanna attract then go for it. It's not a lot of people's taste, but do your own thing...
 

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eh just going for skateboardish look cause... i skateboard lol i just ended up getting this instead
http://www.zumiez.com/nike-6-0-zoom...lebase&utm_medium=p2p&utm_campaign=googlebase

yeah warrior i guess that's true but i only wear mainsteam if i have to ... you're right i definitely won't get as much girls but if i pull it off right i can get the hotter girls who are into the skate scene while to get the hotter girls of mainsteam i have to try a lot harder...

idk i just want to be somewhat different but i know i can't keep on doing it forever college is probably as far as i can go wearing the clothing that i do LOL
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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