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Shoes?

rh79

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Can you guys help me find a good pair of shoes for a tall and skinny guy? I was looking at some older topics and a lot of the links don't work.

Thanks.
 

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Beavis

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A thin shoe, nothing big and bulky ie skater shoes, basketball shoes, or anything in that terms.
 

Soprano

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www.eastbay.com is your friend :up: make sure it's something you personally like and its not just to impress other people. dressing to impress is good, but if you dont like it yourself then its pointless cuz you'll still think it looks ****ty lol
 

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Go barefoot. Who cares?
 

DatMackinBoi

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If your tall.... Im guessing that you have big feet (12-15) i suggest wearing anything that you think is cool... Also if you are bright skinnded wear black shoes.. or somehting of that nature... If your dark i suggest wearing lighter shoes.... Air forces never fail for me!:rockon:
 

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If you got money, i would suggest Creative Recreation shoes...

Honestly, i like only 4 shoes from their brand...but they are way too expensive..

i get my low top lebrons from nordstrom rack...it's cheap as hell and surprisingly legit...

i have these casual puma slip ons...a pair of converse...2 nikes (1 lebron)..and where i live slippers are common..so of course i have a pair of those (stormtrooper style..white on black on white)

btw..i'm tall too and as for wearing wide shoes as one guy above noted...i dont think it matters as long as that's what you do...for example, my lebrons are low tops but are quite bulky...but i play basketball so it makes sense..they aren't my main basketball shoes as my other nikes are...but they are comfortable..the puma slip ons are rather thin though,...and they look great

get whatever you think looks good
 
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