"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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JCballin88

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I usually rock a nice white pair of K-Swiss when I'm out and know I won't be running around in the mud. Match anything, extremely comfortable, and also durable. I think they were like $40.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Unbridled_Phoenix

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Cowboy boots
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Boot/Doc Martin hybrid-looking shoes (without the Doc Martin price tag)
Square-toed dress shoes
 

Captain Harlock

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Jon55 said:
Please point out where I said shoes weren't badass.

I like shoes and clothing a lot. I enjoy fashion as well. But I'd hardly consider talking about shoes in the Tips section a "tip". Shoes aren't going to get you laid or a relationship.

And dude, even most girls agree pink shirts on guys are pretty gay.
if you're manly enough it doesn't matter **** what color your shirt is. And who cares about what the females say?
 

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I like nike air max 95 for athletic purposes..as far as the rest it all depends on the venue..co sign on the converse all stars, puma makes some nice shoes too that can be out of the ordinary. If its time to impress some nice loafers. Like gucciis straight up baller
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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