Shipwrecked on the boring and insulated island of private boys schools

[Ollie101]

Hey DJ's.

Well the title pretty much says it all... I go to a "exclusive" private boys only school in Australia...as in the type in which we are forced to wear khaki short shorts and knee high socks in summer. But that’s not really the cause of the problem.

The big deal breaker for me is the lack of girls! Now to those who will just tell me to grow some balls and go find some, for me at least, it’s not entirely that simple. See I moved to this super conservative school in year 9, and I originally hated it, and was convinced I could get back home, and stay with a friend or some other silly scheme. Anyway back in the real world, I totally left my social standing in my new school to die in a hole, as I was still concerned with my old friends. Needless to say, it left me with little choice in terms of a new group. So I finally found a one, pretty much full of the most immature and retarded people on the planet, and I know this might shock you but my new “buddies” were not exactly hits with the women.
The reason I bring that up is that there is a partnered school to ours, full of girls, which is like the mirror image of my school, in terms of social organization that is. For instance each group of guys will have an associated group of girls, and this is the basis through which all guys get with girls. So for me, I had 0 social status and therefore, I had, and still do have 0 contact with girls.

I have made a decision to give up on the girl’s school, as the social connections are so complex now, and I have no idea about who is who. Plus, the less I can have to do with the stuck up and conservative upper class – of which I am apparently part of…. The better.

Anyway, now all the boring back story is out of the way, my question is how am I supposed to meet girls? As far as I am aware, my appearance is not an issue, and neither is my fitness, as I play three sports, - American football being one of them (in fact I just got selected first string WR for my state) which is really cool here in Australia, and has defs helped me to build up decent respect in my school… but in a smallish city, in which everyone my age (17) seems to be engrossed in their social groups, it has come to me as a bit of a shock, but I seem to be beached

Any suggestions on how to start building some bridges off of my very boring and frustrating island would be greatly appreciated.

Cheers, and thanks 4 reading.

 

[Thatsalotoffish]

Find some stoners and smoke weed they are always interesting people... haha

 

[colombiandude]

thats not the best advice... lmao. if anything dont do it unless you really want to. not to be accepted. thats retarded honestly. you just have to be in the right mindset and break that clique sh*t that goes on in highschool.

 

[eaglez1177]

If your friends are really bringing you down, dont necessarily abandon them, but try to expand your social circle with some of the guys that actually talk to girls.

You cant just completely ignore your sister school and just claim that "ohh complex social connections, theyre rich im not, idk whos who blah blah". Those are all bullsh*t excuses. The fact that you even have a sister school full of girls presents a HUGE opportunity for you, especially since they prolly arrange dances, ppl from your school hang out with chicks from their school, etc.

You really have to make an effort to get to know some people at the other school...not only that, but also try to befriend some guys that would allow you to hang out with these girls.

And just for the record, girls are EVERYWHERE. Theyre not hard to find. Unless you live in a fvckin cave playin video games all day, you'll find girls your age all over the place...restaurants, stores, malls, on the street, fvckin anywhere.