Shes wants to meet

[silverwex]

Hi all,

Thanks to this excellent site ive bagged an 8.5, using the techniques mentioned shes actually coming after me now.

Was texting her all week with C+F replies etc and was out with her last night for my birthday and she wants to meet me later - even though she has a boyfriend!

SHes breaking it off with him to get with me, and if she doesnt break it off with him ill get her anyway!

One of the texts she sent me last night: "I want you so bad now".

Thanks guys!

 

[thejuice]

My advice is dont go for anything serious. I "got" with a girl who broke up with her boyfriend two days before. They were together for maybe a year and some...and it seems that she had trouble adjusting. Maybe it was me (back in my high school days) but she wont get over him in a snap. Even if she professes interest in you, shes going to end up conflicted...

If i were you, id give her two weeks minimun with minimum contact before trying to mess with that. It depends on how long they were an item

 

[Sojourner]

thejuice is correct. Tread carefully around this girl so you won't get hurt. Yogi Berra said "It ain't over till it's over." A girl who's so gung ho about splitsville with her BF to be with you raises a red flag with me. She may be an attention wh*re out to make her boyfriend jealous and when he showers her with attention once more, you're the odd man out.

 

[silverwex]

Thanks guys but...

She said to me that she would dump him to get with me.

Shes been having probs with him for weeks now and wants to break it off with him. I told her its up to her.

I believe that if i hadnt used my C+F with her i wouldnt be in the (Excellent) situation im in now!

SHe was with her bf for 3 years.

 

[-HPNOTQ-]

silverwex

gotta give you props bro..but gotta insert my opinion too...

since you said you've already banged this girl, don't let it turn into oneitis.

as soon as you drop your C/F attitude, put her on a pedestal, and think she's the greatest thing to happen since they put pockets in pants...then she's gonna leave ya for the next guy who is MORE C/F and MORE of a Challenge to her.

and who's to say she says something like: "you know, silverwex was a great f*ckbuddy, but, i think i was happier with the ex because he makes a better LTR than silverwex"

this is a funky senerio...personally, i dont date women who are on the rebound, or date women with bf's...its bad kharma..

I usually wait a month per year she has been a committed relationship before I make the move. For the girl you're with, she was with the guy 3 years = waiting at least 3 months. It saves on emotional baggage, her oneitis on him, and yadda yadda.

But hey, if all you want is a f*ckbuddy, she sounds like the perfect candidate. I got my doubts if she's LTR material though.

Either way, this story sounds interesting. Keep us posted.

-HQ

 

[-HPNOTQ-]

gotta add..i reread your original post

i thought you said BANGED..instead of BAGGED..

same stuff applies after you BANG her too..haha..

 

[Quick]

Originally posted by silverwex
Thanks guys but...

She said to me that she would dump him to get with me.

Shes been having probs with him for weeks now and wants to break it off with him. I told her its up to her.

I believe that if i hadnt used my C+F with her i wouldnt be in the (Excellent) situation im in now!

SHe was with her bf for 3 years.

Not to say it'll definitely end up one way or the other, but....

What she said doesn't matter. Until she's actually dumped him and gotten with you, don't assume that this will happen. Sometimes people outright lie. Sometimes people think they are stronger than they actually are.

If she does leave him, it won't be because of a few weeks worth of fights. It'll be because there's a better prospect for her future or because she's bored with him. Things that have been festering for a long time.