"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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She's very shy

T-Roy

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What should I do about this? My girlfriend is very shy in public but so far she has become comfortable with holding hands and stuff. But when it's just me and her it's great. I'd like to know how to make her more secure with PDA's. I'm not talking making out or anything, just a kiss good bye and the such.

Edit- I don't really want to change her at all. Just give her courage she feels comfortable doing everyday things.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Sounds good. Thanks.

Oh also... She's a lot less shy when it's just me and her. I've learned this since Friday. ;)
 
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