"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Shes tryin to lay down the higher value. No idea what to do

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So some background, I had oneitis for this girl really bad 2 years ago, the sad thing was I never even talked to her, we knew who eachother was but nothin else. Last school year I still didn't talk to her, I liked her a lot less last year. This year she was just hot to me, talked to her just a little.

Saw her at v-ball practice one day i had football practice, sent her a message and started talkin to her since. I've been c&f and everything with her and guess i just messed up.

So what do I say to this?

Feel free to criticize, it helps me learn.


her sweetie ive always been a hard ass lol....there are many things i want but only a real man can get them for me!!!




me lol so now you're a hard ass

fine then what do you want?



her psh hugs are for *****'s



me you probably want two then




her nope i dont want one hug




me haha oh yes you know you want some




her i dont need hugs!!! lol



me well i was gonna give you a hug since i figured that was a little hard but lol ok



her ooouuuuccchhhh!!!! they would be rolling on the ground laughing so hatd cuz you have like no pictures on myspace





me haha they'd be laughin at you cuz you aren't tall enough to order tickets
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Can someone just tell me what to say back even if it's somethin really obvious that'll make me look stupid for not sayin it in the first place?
 
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Lay off the weed and maybe you'll be able to form more coherent sentences, because I have no idea what the hell that was.
 
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I meant can someone tell me what I should say back to her tryin to establish herself as the prize, because I have no idea what to say.
 
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Um, i couldn't make much sense of the "conversation" part of your post... but all i can see is you trying the CnF... not really sure what the problem is.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The jump in the conversation from you asking her what she wants to hugs are for XXXXX makes no sense. Is something missing there? It's hard for people to give advice when the conversation you present is so poorly organized.
 
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Well just we were joking around making fun of eachother, talkin about if we got in a fight at the movies, I said somethin that I thought mighta been a litttle too hard, so I was offerin to give her a hug to make her feel better (kino).

She just kept joking around like she didn't need one saying they're for pvssies.

I messed up by asking what did she need then and she tried putting herself as the prize.
 
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I have read several of your posts and you need some practice

there are no special little one liners that are gonna get you laid

experience gets you laid...go sarge

having oneitis for a girl you have never really talked too is bad...imo she can read you like a book

try to treat her as normal as possible and invite her somewhere

also... when she said she was a hardass, I personally would have slapped her ass or made some sexual comment about that...but thats just me
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Were you high when you arguing with her? Cause you seem to be the kind of person who should NOT smoke. Couple things:

1 - Don't text women more than once or twice a day, unless shes sleeping with you or your legit lady. It makes you desperate (waiting for a reply), it makes you seem desperate (she either may get turned off, or take advantage and use you for attention), and it is probably wasting your texts for more important people.

You want to know what to say to her to knock her off her pedestal? Nothing. Do not talk to her. For at least 1-2 weeks if not till the end of summer. I'd suggest the latter, move on to other women. You play football right? What about the team cheer leaders? What about the other schools cheer leaders?

Do you really want to be with a girl who says: "sweetie ive always been a hard ass lol....there are many things i want but only a real man can get them for me!!!"

Translated - "I'm going to be naggy and demanding and make you wait for it"

B1tch sounds nuts in my opinion.

NEXT.
 
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