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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

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Shes texted me before hanging out..

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Made out several times
Got number and she has mine

one day later
Her: Did you get home ok
Her: Hey you okay
Me: Good good do you want to hang out later this week
Her: Yeah sounds good
Me: How about thursday around 7
Her Im working thursday night Undecided
2 hours pass
Her: You free another time?
Me: Which evenings are you not working
Her: Monday, tuesday, wednesday, saturday
Me: Wednesday around 8?
Her: Yeah sounds good. What you fancy doing? Im a bit skint till Thursday
Me: Let me think of place. ill hit you up wednesday
Her: Okay x

-Next day she texts in the evening next day (2 days before we actually meet)

Her: Hey had a good day?

What do i text without this just being a boring conversation or send something that gets taken the wrong way and she lose attraction or change her mind just want to keep this simple before we meet then im good from there.

I can see this going downhill from here on out, shes obviously trying to feel me out, and with a boring question like that its not going to do me any favours playing along.

What would you guys do?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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VladPatton

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Just have fun and don't take it so seriously. If she can't handle your humor or your wild side, she'll be an all-around bore:

Her: Had a good day?

You: It was outstanding!!!

Her: What did you do??

You: I directed an orgy with 25 midgets and it turned out spectacular!

Be different, be playful, and be untamed. Never be afraid to say crazy shıt to bıtches. Pique that interest and excite her.

Good luck.
 

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Thats what i tend to do after we have had sex (after a meet up), as from past experience me being like that beforehand has a chance of throwing her off and change her mind. Girls are ****y over text before having sex and they worm there way out of it
 

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If she gets thrown off by something sexual you said, jokingly off course, then it's most likely an uphill battle. If she throws down sexual puns with you and gets naughty with it, chances are she'll be easier to bang. This is something I've noticed. Call it a shıt test if you will.
 
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Not sure that could be overgaming, when girls do this i get the feeling there seeking comfort before we meet up. Thoughts?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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listen to Vlad - he hasn't put out a single piece of bad advice that ive seen so far.

Stop worrying and overthinking.
 

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Think ignoring the text and just hit her up wednesday as planned if she asks ill just say i didnt see the text

Good move?
 

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Here's is your chance to f*ck withs little but and get the excitement going as the rest of your texts have been robotic date planning.

Follow VLads advice kid. You're thinking too hard and will lose this chick if you don't loosen up and f*ck with her abit. Girls love that sh!t.

When in doubt the easiest way to create some attraction is to make fun or tease her lightly and then run with it. Banter her, ****y funny - look it up.
 

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VladPatton said:
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Her: What did you do??

You: I directed an orgy with 25 midgets and it turned out spectacular!
LMFAO!

OP: how hot is this chick? she seems like the clingy type. Avoid if below 8.
 

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you want her to be talking with you, don't over do it, keep it fun and minimal. don't ignore her.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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