"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Shes texted me before hanging out..

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Made out several times
Got number and she has mine

one day later
Her: Did you get home ok
Her: Hey you okay
Me: Good good do you want to hang out later this week
Her: Yeah sounds good
Me: How about thursday around 7
Her Im working thursday night Undecided
2 hours pass
Her: You free another time?
Me: Which evenings are you not working
Her: Monday, tuesday, wednesday, saturday
Me: Wednesday around 8?
Her: Yeah sounds good. What you fancy doing? Im a bit skint till Thursday
Me: Let me think of place. ill hit you up wednesday
Her: Okay x

-Next day she texts in the evening next day (2 days before we actually meet)

Her: Hey had a good day?

What do i text without this just being a boring conversation or send something that gets taken the wrong way and she lose attraction or change her mind just want to keep this simple before we meet then im good from there.

I can see this going downhill from here on out, shes obviously trying to feel me out, and with a boring question like that its not going to do me any favours playing along.

What would you guys do?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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VladPatton

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Just have fun and don't take it so seriously. If she can't handle your humor or your wild side, she'll be an all-around bore:

Her: Had a good day?

You: It was outstanding!!!

Her: What did you do??

You: I directed an orgy with 25 midgets and it turned out spectacular!

Be different, be playful, and be untamed. Never be afraid to say crazy shıt to bıtches. Pique that interest and excite her.

Good luck.
 

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Thats what i tend to do after we have had sex (after a meet up), as from past experience me being like that beforehand has a chance of throwing her off and change her mind. Girls are ****y over text before having sex and they worm there way out of it
 

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If she gets thrown off by something sexual you said, jokingly off course, then it's most likely an uphill battle. If she throws down sexual puns with you and gets naughty with it, chances are she'll be easier to bang. This is something I've noticed. Call it a shıt test if you will.
 
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Not sure that could be overgaming, when girls do this i get the feeling there seeking comfort before we meet up. Thoughts?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Purefilth

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listen to Vlad - he hasn't put out a single piece of bad advice that ive seen so far.

Stop worrying and overthinking.
 

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Think ignoring the text and just hit her up wednesday as planned if she asks ill just say i didnt see the text

Good move?
 

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Here's is your chance to f*ck withs little but and get the excitement going as the rest of your texts have been robotic date planning.

Follow VLads advice kid. You're thinking too hard and will lose this chick if you don't loosen up and f*ck with her abit. Girls love that sh!t.

When in doubt the easiest way to create some attraction is to make fun or tease her lightly and then run with it. Banter her, ****y funny - look it up.
 

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VladPatton said:
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Her: What did you do??

You: I directed an orgy with 25 midgets and it turned out spectacular!
LMFAO!

OP: how hot is this chick? she seems like the clingy type. Avoid if below 8.
 

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you want her to be talking with you, don't over do it, keep it fun and minimal. don't ignore her.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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