"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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She's Teasing me

laid-back444

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Ok,so I'v got this girlfriend right and we'v been going out for almost a month.
It's now the school holidays. We have a pretty good relationship, relaxed comfortable, fun, exciting - everything you want. But the other day when we went to the movies she started playing hard to get. She was pulling the old
Pull in, Push away trick. She comes in, dressed all sexy, we kiss, go in2 the movies, sit down. She kept giving me the eye (thats the GOOD eye by the way)
and flirts with me continously. Half way through, we have a passionate french. At the end of the movie, she starts acting even sexier than ever, pushing her chest out, flirting like crazy, so I'm thinking 'Whoah someoones excited' but then
- she decides she wont let me kiss her. I can kiss anywhere but her mouth. She starts laughing, meanwhile flirting just as much. I could tell she wanted me to start begging her. But of course - I can't give it because then she would probably walk all over me whenever we meet again, pulling the same thing every time. How should I respond to her. She's driving me crazy!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Plec07

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Next time she tries that stunt go cold on her. Disipline her like you would a dog (sounds harsh but it's true). Make her regret it and feel uncomfortable. That way she'll think twice about attempting to withdraw attention from you.
 

Mobster727

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wouldnt you like to know?
I woulda just stopped kissing her and act like i was watching the movie thenshe would think
:WTF?!?!"
Trust me she would think twice before teasing her...You need to make sure YOU are in control of the situation not her
 
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