She's still mourning

[Slickster]

A girl I've been seeing lost her ex-fiance in a tragic accident 2 1/2 years ago.

Things started slowly between us because I definately sensed some heavy baggage there.

I've kept my options open and have been seeing other people with out her knowing. We haven't made any commitments to each other but I do believe that I'm the only guy she's seeing.

I do really like her and consider her definate LTR material. I am also considering an LTR with the right girl.

However she is still carrying around this pain and probably will for a long time. The anniversary of her Ex's accident just past and she's been really down lately. She says this time of year is really hard for her. I sympathize but its difficult for me to be around her when I know her thoughts are with him.

She's great in many many ways but this is a definate obstacle for me.

Any thoughts? Thanks.

 

[ShortyBrown]

Wow.....this is a difficult subject. I can't really be of help, but I want you to know that I feel for you.

 

[Ar7]

I am assuming here that you have already shown her what you have to offer her. But she does not see this because she is constantly dwelling over her past.

Let her be, in your absense your importance shall shine. Hopefully this will allow her to get over her X and start seeing the sunshine you bring for its real worth.

Ok that sounded gay.. beta stop

Good luck dude

 

[THA REALNESS]

n.e.x.t.

it'z not worth it she'll always put him on apedestal ,and plus she's still greiving , she could still b ur freind still,so wait relax ,and look 4 others.