"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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She's So High Above Me

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I was in the grocery store this morning and they were blaring this song very loudly. It's by Fastball I think:

"She's so high, high above me, she's so lovely.
She's so high, like Cleopatra, Joan of Arc, or Aphrodiiiii-iiii-iiite"

Ugggh. I nearly crawled out of my skin, it made me feel so squicky.
Perfect example of the media and rock songs teaching us all how to be oh so AFC. And to think people actually pay to listen to this garbage.
But seriously, it was making my skin crawl.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I was in high school in the late 90's when this song and other AFC anthems were polluting the airwaves in a competition to be the biggest promoter of AFCness.

Good thing I was listening to Too $hort:cool:
 
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nxpblnsJEWM :cuss:

Radio Head - Creep

When you were here before,
Couldn't look you in the eye
You're just like an angel,
Your skin makes me cry

You float like a feather
In a beautiful world
I wish I was special
You're so ****in' special

But I'm a creep,
I'm a weirdo
What the hell am I doin' here?
I don't belong here

I don't care if it hurts,
I wanna have control
I want a perfect body
I want a perfect soul

I want you to notice
when I'm not around
You're so ****in' special
I wish I was special

But I'm a creep
I'm a weirdo
What the hell am I doin' here?
I don't belong here, ohhhh, ohhhh

She's running out again
She's running out
She run run run run...
run... run...

Whatever makes you happy
Whatever you want
You're so ****in' special
I wish I was special

But I'm a creep,
I'm a weirdo
What the hell am I doin' here?
I don't belong here

I don't belong here...
 
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It's the ultimate AFC song. It has lyrics like the following:

"What could a guy like me ever really offer?"
"She's perfect as she can be. Why should I even bother?"
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sickining.

:down:
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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It's funny that these song whom cater towards females with AFC lyrics, are Adored by so many females whom would give these Musical artists the time of day. Yet, If I the common guy spew this crap in an attempt to be romantic, or poetic she wouldn't give Me the time of day.

Women Suck period!!!
 
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"She's so high" by Bachman Turner Overdrive is the name of the song. All I listen to is pretty much 90's. I like more alternative stuff from the 90's though.
 
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Another one that surprised me is Kanye's new "Disrespectful". I thought that guy had at least some level of game.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Funny that these guys have probably gotten more pvssy than this whole thread combined, not to mention the millions of dollars of revenue they've brought in.

dont hate the player, hate the game
 
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WC2 said:
Funny that these guys have probably gotten more pvssy than this whole thread combined, not to mention the millions of dollars of revenue they've brought in.

dont hate the player, hate the game
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so who cares about them, they're set. it's the males listening to it im worried about lol.
 
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Dannyrt34 said:
"She's so high" by Bachman Turner Overdrive is the name of the song. All I listen to is pretty much 90's. I like more alternative stuff from the 90's though.
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Tal Bachman, actually. But if I'm not mistaken he is the offspring of one of the guys from Bachman Turner Overdrive.


This song was a lot cooler when I only heard the first part of the chorus....

"She's so HIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIGH......"

Seriously. I didn't pay much attention to it when it came out because I was a metal guy. I didn't listen to FM radio. I thought it was a song about getting high until I was forced to sit down and listen to the rest of it and wasn't able to change the station. :down:
 
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Bah, go listen to Under My Thumb by The Rolling Stones.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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arutha said:
Bah, go listen to Under My Thumb by The Rolling Stones.
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That's a good song.

I use to listen to that back in the prime of my AFC days. :crackup:
 
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That is a good one, Under My Thumb is No Contact Guys' anthem.
 
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