"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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she's sending me pics

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So...this chick is very hands on, very feninine. Like holding on to me whenever we are alone. We been vibing.
So she send me 3 pics. 3 different looks/outfits, except the 3rd one was really sexy. Bra and panties type.

So we should reward good behavior by giving our attention when needed. My question is..do I start texting her more now that the sending of pics started.?

I've only been texting like twice...she's been initiating.

P.s.

She said she wants to take it slow, so her sharing pics might be a way to keep me interested longer.

Thoughts?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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there's this girl who will send me pics randomly showing her titties and what not .. i dont know how to interpret it .. but i get low levels of interest in response when i take it as a que to maybe ask her out on a date .. she's busy/has something planned/etc. but every once in a while she'll email/text me new nude pics of herself ..

I'm not complaining .. this girl has the biggest/sexiest pair of tits ive ever seen.
 

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Stop paying attention to her words. If you want to Fvck her then try to Fvck her when you are alone. Don't let a woman control your actions. Are you her puppet or are you a guy that TAKES what he wants?
 

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How many times have you guys hung out?

She said she wants to take it slow, so her sharing pics might be a way to keep me interested longer.
Her sharing pics actually makes her seem really slvtty and doesn't prove her desire to take it slow. I see it 2 ways - she's a sexting wh*re and you're just another fish or she DOESN'T want to take it slow with you ;)

I wouldn't get in the mindset of texting her more as a reward for good behavior. It might be that she's trying to see how easily you can be ensnared with slvtty behavior. I'd be interested to see others opinions.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Appreciate but DON'T go highschool boy mode..
Dnt make it a habit to compliment all the time.
 

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How many times have you guys hung out?



Her sharing pics actually makes her seem really slvtty and doesn't prove her desire to take it slow. I see it 2 ways - she's a sexting wh*re and you're just another fish or she DOESN'T want to take it slow with you ;)

True.
When I'm in a good positive mindset, I see it as she doesn't want to take it slow but doesn't want to seem slutty.
But we hung out once, I think she's sort of a DJ herself. Very confident, sexy, she knows she gets looks.

I'm doubting myself because she let's me grope, she comes to snuggle with me. I just don't want to get played or blue balled...lol.
So ...and I don't want to next , would definitely keep her around for a few months . But like I said, it was the first date, 2nd time I've seen her within 3 weeks. So 1st meeting was number close, 2nd meeting was 2 drinks and kiss goodnight followed by her texts of appreciation. So it might be me moving too fast thinking I can get the pvssy.


Any helpful ideas?

Meanwhile I'll keep approaching others.
 
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