"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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shes says, "we are cruising around town picking up boys."

Jumpman23

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This girl I am interested in says jokingly over the phone "we are cruising around town for boys." She was a little tispy, just sarcastically said cool. But
I am currently out of town.

want to reply via text,
something funny later tonight.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

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Jumpman23 said:
This girl I am interested in says jokingly over the phone "we are cruising around town for boys." She was a little tispy, just sarcastically said cool. But
I am currently out of town.

want to reply via text,
something funny later tonight.
you are interested in her, but have u and her kissed or had sex yet? if not, then u are wasting your energy even posting this
 

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Jumpman23 said:
This girl I am interested in says jokingly over the phone "we are cruising around town for boys." She was a little tispy, just sarcastically said cool. But
I am currently out of town.

want to reply via text,
something funny later tonight.
"boys? I thought you were looking for men?! otherwise you know where I live".
 

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If you were going to make a witty response, you should've made it right after she said it. Don't text her a comeback later, as it will tip her off that her comment got under your skin. This was a S#it test, and you already passed it by being non-reactive...give yourself a pat on the back!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Jumpman23

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Jeffst1980 said:
If you were going to make a witty response, you should've made it right after she said it. Don't text her a comeback later, as it will tip her off that her comment got under your skin. This was a S#it test, and you already passed it by being non-reactive...give yourself a pat on the back!
oops,
stated hey tell your friend liz i said hello, u can slip her the digits.
She did not text back though.

I have stated this before jokingly, but I am not sure if there is much to read.
 
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