"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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She's really pissed

Leporello

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This really close friend/friend with benefits of mine is really heavily invested in a particular politicla issue (never mind which one). I mean, this issue is basically her life. I would be impossible to overestimate how important it is to her. . Since I'm more conflicted on it, I usually just smile and nod when she's talking about it, though now and then I might say somehting more hostile and we always end up having a fight.

Anyway, last night she found some things I had posted on the internet which were far removed from her way of thinking. And she is REALLY upset. I mean, yelling-screaming-crying upset, because she had always thought I was basically on the same page as her (not counting my occasional slipups) and so she says she feels betrayed and that i was dishonest.

Any advice?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Fvck her brains out.

Women only get upset with guys to get their attention.
 

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Whatever ideas she created in her head about you are not your fault. She has no right to be pissed off at you for having independant thought. If she can't respect you for having your own beliefs and opinions, she's not a decent friend.

If she's a fvck buddy, what the hell are you doing having deep conversation with her? Her only concern should be what positions you should use, how fast you're going to pump, and who's going to supply the rubbers.
 

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If your looking for a way to put her mind at ease then just keep moving mate, otherwise Desdinova already nailed it, shes a fvck buddy which means deep convo's are out, deep conversation should be out with any chicks anyway.

And dont say "friends with benefits", its gay. Unless your a chick trying to play down your social "slvt" factor by giving it a light and fluffy spin then call a spade a spade.



"She's really pissed !!"............your joking aren't ya, you even asking a question?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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She is your pleasure hor!!! She has no existence besides that - she has no views, she has no power, she has no thoughts, she is non-existent except for pleasure - she is not even your "friend" - she is your pleasure slave!!!

You do not go against her because you are scared that she may close her legs if you are in disagreement! Fvck her!!!! Again!!!! Don't give up your manhood and your mind and your stance on issues for a hor just because you want her stank hole!!! This makes you look weak!!

When she found out your true thinking - you should have stated "yeah Ho, I believe, no, I KNOW women are subservient to men - - now get down on your knees and service me hor!!!!" and then slapped her like this...http://www.rickysplace.com/flash3/slap-ho.html
 
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