“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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She's pretty but i shouldn't approach her because....

AFCitsnotforme

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Ok so my attitude and behaviour towards women has improved alot. I can make conversation easy enough, don't fall for the BS, and so on.

BUT, when i'm 'out' i have this mental block when it comes to just approaching women. I always seem to find a reason NOT to approach though (eg, she's busy talkign to her friend, she must be with a guy etc) - when i think about it it is pathetic, its like im looking for a girl with a flashing neon light saying TALK TO ME before i'll approach.

Maybe i shoudl be looking for reasons TOO rather than NOT TOO approach (now theres a thought lol)

ive read the DJ bible stuff several times, do i just need a slap in the face and a kick up the a**?

Have any of you guys overcome something like this?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Yes we all have, "slaps you in the face and kicks you in the butt" now stop waising your own time asking quesions which you already have the answers to.
 

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Yep, employ the 'three second rule ' in the bible. If you see a pretty girl, don't wait any longer than the time it takes you to say 'one thousand two thousand three thousand' in your head to approach her.

Eventually this becomes second nature and you won't have time to start making approaches as to why NOT to approach her.

Make sure it's a natural approach though - don't pounce on her just as she's come into the room and hasn't even taken her coat off!
 

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Originally posted by AFCitsnotforme
Have any of you guys overcome something like this?
Yes.

Next time you want to approach a girl, but you start feeling afraid of what she'll think/say/do, what her friends will think/say/do, or what your friends will think/say/do, stop and say to yourself, "Lose the drama, get over yourself and try again."

You're injecting a lot of unnecessary drama into the situation worrying about what effect she or anyone else has on your reality. Get control of yourself...what happens has NO impact on the rest of the universe.
 

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If your not sure if you should approach her or not try this. When you make eye contact smile and wave. If she waves back go for it.
 
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