she's playing

[Bingo-Player]

matched this chick on tinder on friday, she comes straight out of her shell and starts telling me I'm the best looking guy she's matched with can't believe i swiped right to her blah blah

now for a woman to do this , its rare i mean really rare especially where i live

if this was a fat or ugly chick i could understand but she's not , she's a solid 7 possibly 7.5 when dolled up from what i can see through photos so I'm struggling to see her angle unless of course she's genuinely that into me

ok so i take the bait and i play along she draws me in well to be fair to her we have common interestes and we connect ( dangerous)

but as it happens I've planned to go away with my friends this weekend so i tell her and cut all communication for the time being

she messages me yesterday morning again hoping i have a nice time and all this

so i go away and to be honest she's lodged in my mind at the back but she's still there thankfully i didn't send any drunk messages

this morning I'm hungover and of course needy i keep the conversation fairly straight but she must have smelt weakness or something because this evening messages have been sent through at an hourly rate she's still soft for me in the messages but experience tells me the the games starting now

not entirely sure wether to just next her now and save myself the next 3 weeks worth of headwork , or i just play along and see if i can get her on her back not quite sure yet

women are such vices lol

 

[old_skoolr]

Never message a woman when your at your weakest.

And plus dude your away with your mates, why would you message some slvt on TInder??? You should be focusing on smashing box when your out with your friends.

 

[Lozboss]

OK let me let you into a secret.

A game is only played when two parties play it. If you refuse to play games then they won't happen.

By refuse I mean you don't validate this girl's game playing with responses.

The cold shoulder and the 'i'm not playing this sh*t' methods work a treat.

Suggest you back off and take it easy. Set a date and then go cold until then. If she flakes then you delete her number.

 

[Bingo-Player]

i agree

but the problem is they ALL play games now its become common practice

i took a zero tolerance policy to bullsh1t last year and to be fair it paid dividends because my life became so less complex when not worrying about women

BUT

the game still goes on wether you choose to take part or not , if you don't play you don't get anything

its a double ended sword I'm afraid

 

[EyeBRollin]

Don't communicate with a woman unless you are making a move. Put your phone down. You are out with the boys... why are you thinking about this broad?