She's playin us both

[pilot0001]

I like a gothic chick on campus.
Problem is, so does my roommate.

He's somewhat of an AFC... but he does have a sence of humor. She's into ****, he says he doesn't wanna have sex until he's married. Talk about polar opposites. He's never had a drink in his life, she likes to party. Quite frankly her and I are more on the same page.

Anyway, she knows we both like her and she's playing it. If I play passive (so not to hump her damn leg with him...), I start getting jealous. If I play aggressive, well I'm sure she'd just love to have 2 roommates fighting over her.

What do you think? The whole unavailable thing is out the window. WE live on campus. We all see everybody every day.

 

[TesuqueRed]

She knows you are into her? At this point, if she likes the attention (and she does) you've got an uphill battle. Use what they call around here "gangi games". Withdraw. Watch her come running.

 

[Survivor]

Hey pilot,

Its good that you mentioned that all three of you live on a campus in which everyone sees each other everyday. It helps tremendously in what I advise you to do.

Basically you're in an environment that young inexperienced "DJs" are usually advised to STAY AWAY from; that is, places where if you fail with one girl, you've in essence failed with ALL of them. (i.e. high schools, small college campuses, work offices with lots of gossip, etc.)

But since you are stuck in such an environment, my main question is this: What is your objective?

If its to pursue this one particular goth girl, then be prepared to place whatever friendship you may have with your roommate in jeapardy, and not to mention, your reputation on campus.

However, if your objective is to attract as many attactive women as possible, including the goth girl, then you have a much better chance at success. Avoid the one-itis trap and expand your social circle to include more girls. In fact, after discovering other girls on campus, both you and your roommate may decide that the goth girl wasn't worth fighting over in the first place.

Don't give her the opportunity to reject you then brag to her girlfriends about how she has two roommates fighting over her. She could ruin any chance you have with possibly every girl on campus. Don't let that happen.

Both you and your roommate should play the field and not get infactuated, especially not over the same girl.

 

[THA REALNESS]

I'd throw you roomate a bone if i was you.

This girl is obviously not worth it and is into getting the attention from both of you .

Why would you want some possible tension between you and your roomate anyways?