"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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She's mad about me ignoring her, how do I respond

Ice_Berg_1

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I decided to take some advice and use the old ignore the girl trick. So far it's been pretty sucessful and funny to see the way this girl has been acting the past week. The first day I avoided her phone calls she blew my phone up about untill around 3 in the morning. The next day she got me by blocking her number but I let her go right away, I don't she could take it so the following day she supposedly locked her keys inside her car and I was the only one she could get ahold of to drive her home to get her spair set so she could make it to work on time. Anyway, I spent alot of time with this girl throughout the summer, always excepting her invitations to hang out or whatever but I accomplished nothing. So now that I've made myself not so available it's starting to bother her and she is wanting to know what's up, why I've "changed" all of a sudden. How should I respond to this and get it so it works to my advantage?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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But what he is doing can break him out of LJBF zone.
 

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Just tell her you're busy.

She's really upset because she lost control of the relationship and can't expect you to drop everything when she wants to hang out anymore.

Start dating other women and stay scarce and let her come chasing after you.

gixx
 

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Sounds Like its

Working.

But, I wouldn't put much stock into it. One thing bears mentioning here, using tricks and techniques can backfire if your putting too much effort into making the "trick" work.

If you expend all your energy looking into tricks and techniques to use on someone with a low intrest level, you'd be better off just finding some other women to fvck.

Cuz, as soon as the trick wears off what will you replace it with?

Do you have any other options?


Sayno'
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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