"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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OMG i met this girl at a club 2 months ago and i took her out a few times and she told me she was a virgin. The 9th time we went out we went back to my place and we got on the bed. Were getting into it and i slip my hands down her pants to finger her everything felt right.

Then i slip 1 finger insider her p*ssy then 2 then 3 then 4 and the 5. I was really confused if she is a virgin why can i fit 5 fingers in????????? she is skinny to
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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This reminds me of when i was dating this mother of 2 and she told me she was a virgin.

I couldnt quite put my finger on it but for some strange reason i had a feeling she wasnt a virgin.
 

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Haha I love the 'then.. thenn.. then.."

Very good picture of your jaw dropping lower and lower each finger lmao.

I really don't know why women say they are unless they've only had sex a couple times, because many girls I've been with think it's just a bad thing to be doing, especially if they're in high school or just out.

I thought I took this absolutely FINE girl's virginity, but a year later we go out to lunch just to hang out and she said she had been talking to a few guys before me, I think she only fawkin one tho. EITHER WAY, them LIEin' harlots... =D
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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haha....1 then 2 then 3 then 4 then 5....hahaha

Damn she aint a virgin bro....shes a ****ing professional skank... Ive been with quite a few girls and i couldnt fit more than 2 fingers in most of them.....if you can fit your whole hand, your ****ing with the wrong *****.
 

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Just another example of why you need to pretend you are listening to a chick and quickly discard what they are saying...

These curve balls do screw up your "game" if you start giving it credence
 

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last chick I was with...I could only just get 3 in.
Best bang ever
 
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I think i have to become a NINJA
 

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That is right my brother there is a ninja within us all. I call it our inner ninja i am a real ninja by the way.

This is me on completion of my NINJA training in Okinawa Japan

http://i15.photobucket.com/albums/a394/GTASAglitch/japanesegardencopy.jpg

This is me in Iraq taking on a contingent of the Iraqi army with only a plank of wood and my most deadly weapon MY BODY

http://i15.photobucket.com/albums/a394/GTASAglitch/untitled.jpg

This is me having ninja sex with a girl i just met on the ninja beach

http://i15.photobucket.com/albums/a394/GTASAglitch/dsqawd.jpg
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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whether shes tight or not is not relevant to how often she has sex. girls come in all different shapes and sizes. some virgins are loose and some harlets are tight. thats just how it goes.

-SLB
 

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Thinking back on this post...

Not always the case though, I had sex with a FINE ass hottie last night but I know she is a slut. I had to work at it for a while to be able to get two fingers in and lubricant to fawk. You never know...

Btw, I'll have pictures posted soon :) My drunk arse whipped out the camera haha.
 

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Originally posted by Black_Italian
That is right my brother there is a ninja within us all. I call it our inner ninja i am a real ninja by the way.

This is me on completion of my NINJA training in Okinawa Japan

http://i15.photobucket.com/albums/a394/GTASAglitch/japanesegardencopy.jpg

This is me in Iraq taking on a contingent of the Iraqi army with only a plank of wood and my most deadly weapon MY BODY

http://i15.photobucket.com/albums/a394/GTASAglitch/untitled.jpg

This is me having ninja sex with a girl i just met on the ninja beach

http://i15.photobucket.com/albums/a394/GTASAglitch/dsqawd.jpg
Uhmmmm ya!!
 
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