She's kinda young, but she seems to be giving me the green light

[teddy]

She's 19, I'm 25....so she's kind of young for me, at least relationship-wise. I used to see her off and on with mutual friends, never really chatted her up beyond some basic stuff. Then one time we had a really "fun" conversation that she started to dig. After that she'd always try to seek me out.

She has a playful personality that really feeds into my strengths; for instance, last time we met up, we got into a tickle fight, and a "pillow" fight (using random props as a pillow) and we were rolling around and sh!t.

So from this it seems like she's giving me the green light to make a move.

Thing is, because she's reasonably attractive, she's one of those women who has a lot of guy "friends" and since she's much younger than me, I guess she's more prone to getting emotionally attached and whatnot.

Should I go after this chick if I'm not really sure she's gf material right now? I do need to build some positive momentum myself, but I also don't want to cause any undo hurt if she becomes excessively attached.

 

[Leashed]

Go with your gut. If you believe you'll enjoy this girl's company even for a little bit then go for it.

A woman your age will build a strong emotional attachment towards you much easier than one who's 19, they've got more pressure to find the one they'll marry. And if she does end up liking you 'too much' then come back on over here and I'm sure the guys can you give you some solid advice on how to let her down easy. I could get into that now, but I won't, because you don't need it.

Again, if you like her go for it and don't even think about the potential consequences. Take it day by day.

 

[goldengoose]

She's an adult, don't over think anything, and just do it, if she is green lighting you, go for it.

 

[Jaylan]

Shes young, attractive, and has lots of guy friends....yet youre saying shes the one who will get attached? lol, doubtful. I think its more likely that you will catch feelings OP. Id say keep things light and just have fun, nothing serious. At her age, anything serious likely wont work. Plus I wouldnt want anything serious with a woman that had a lot of guy friends anyways.

 

[skinnyguy]

That's not young dude. I'm 31 going after a 21 year old.

 

[Kevin F Study]

i didn't study for my test and got an f. because of it i won't get into harvard. it sucks. my a was stolen. then i peed and **** in my pants. should of studyd. ate some crap


my study skills suck

 

[asa_don]

i didn't study for my test and got an f. because of it i won't get into harvard. it sucks. my a was stolen. then i peed and **** in my pants. should of studyd. ate some crap

can you guys get rid of this idiot? thanks.

 

[Kevin F Study]

can you guys get rid of this idiot? thanks. I'm a homosexual but failed my subjects at harvard because my study skill suck

you're an asswipe. harvard should give me opportunity even though i didn't study and get an f in every subject

 

[MikeOck]

Have you learned anything here? Women like sex. Let me repeat that, WOMEN LIKE SEX. They want it. They need it. They fantasize about it. This isn't the 1800's, casual sex is common, socially acceptable and no relationship is required. This women wants it from you, act now before she finds some other guy to give it to her.

 

[rascal99v]

Dude, you haven't even made a move yet and you're worried about a relationship?

Worrying and overthinking leads to mistakes, and mistakes will fvck up your game and your mindset.

You can't go on just having a "tickle fight" or a "pillow fight" as your green light. Some girls are just playful with friends. You need to see some sexual vibes going on. If you can see real sexual interest, then there is no reason not to go through with it.

I don't know why everybody is so concerned about age. Age has nothing to do with having sex, having sexual experience, or wanting relationships.

Some old guy who barely got laid his whole life is not going to have more sexual experience than a younger dude who gets laid like a boss. Just because the other guy is older, that means nothing.

I know chicks who are 20, and they have more sexual experience than some chicks that are 25 and 26. It all depends on who the person is, not how old they are.

A lot of chicks 18, 19, 20 are just looking to hook up because they are in that phase. Not every one of them wants a relationship.

If she has a lot of dudes around, I doubt that she wants to jump into a relationship. If she's banging them, then you'll be just one of the boys. Not a boyfriend. And you don't have to be in a relatonship if you don't want to be.

Quit worrying about it. When you get a green light, always take it. When you wait and screw around it will turn yellow. Then when it turns red, you will be fvcked (and not in the good way) and then you will be kicking yourself in the ass for not making a move when you should have. :yes:

 

[teddy]

Quit worrying about it. When you get a green light, always take it. When you wait and screw around it will turn yellow. Then when it turns red, you will be fvcked (and not in the good way) and then you will be kicking yourself in the ass for not making a move when you should have. :yes:

For whatever reason lately, I'm just having a very, very tough time discerning a genuine green light from one from an AW or fake interest.