she's just out of a LTR...move in?

[golf299]

there's a girl in my summer class who i was laying the c&f and kino down on in the beginning of the term but then i heard her say something about her bf so i laid off. then tonight i was with some other friends from class at her restaurant and she said she just broke up with her boyfriend because he is mean to her. they were together for like 3 yrs, but he goes to school all the way on the other side of the country so they probably havent seen each other much lately.

do u think it's too early to move in or what? btw, there is only a week left of class, so i know i have to make a move, but do you think she would be receptive?

thanks boys

 

[-HPNOTIQ-]

Depends what you want from the girl..One Nighter or LTR?

She doesn't seem like LTR material right now. Her mind is stuck on her current, or, soon to be exbf. Chicks in this mindset make horrible LTR's. Her mind maybe on you for the interm, but, she'll be thinking so much on the ex, it'll destroy your future with her. If you want an LTR, give her some time to get over the other fella.

NOW, on the other hand. If what you're looking at is a FB for the next 2 weeks. Why the hell are you asking us? You got nothing to lose if the girl is leaving.

crazykid has a good quote on his signature -
'hesitation leads to masturbation'

good luck bro
-HQ

 

[golf299]

UPDATE

well here's a little update from today. after class a group of us went to the library to study. i had applied some light kino earlier in the day and ALL throughout the study session i caught her looking at me from across the table. we would hold eye contact for longer than normal and then look away...usually she looked away first.

anyway, after everyone was done studying for the day they went their separate ways and we went a different way, just the 2 of us. she was saying that she was going home to get something to eat and then go workout since she hadnt eaten in a while and hadnt worked out in a couple weeks. after she said that she was hungry one more time i said "we should go out and get something to eat." then she said "well, im just going to go home and grab something and then go workout before my night class."

here's the thing: i feel like there's a connection. i felt like i was getting buying signs. so what gives? should i ask her out again, more formally? wouldnt she have said 'yes' if she was interested, regardless of working out? maybe not....i dont know. a little help guys...

 

[htemorp]

Normally these girls are just looking for flings and rebounds. Unless they're chronic LTR person, chances are they aren't looking to start another LTR.