"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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She's just not that into me ?

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So I messaged this girl on FB after not having talked to her in a while. She took a couple days to respond and we messaged back and forth a little. I told her we should catch up sometime over the weekend over a drink. She continued to tell me how she would be into something like that. She also mentioned how she was off fri/sat after 830pm. I responded and told her that I could pick her up Friday at 930pm and left my number and told her to text me. It's now 10pm Friday and I messaged her again after not hearing back from her (even though I see her active online) and she still hasn't responded. I've heard people say that women like to play hard to get and sometimes you gotta do a little chasing. I feel like if she was actually interested, she wouldn't have left me hanging. What do you my next course of action should be
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Do not contact her again. She flaked on you when you'd offered to meet her up. On top of that, she didn't even bother explaining herself — flat-out ignored your text messages. This is an obvious show of low interest levels.

If she is interested in you then she will text you.

If a woman plays hard to get by flat-out flaking on dates then she is not worth your time and wasting it, additionally.

And yes, she's just not that into you, it seems.
 
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