"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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She's into me, but her parents won't let her hang out with me?

ediceneet12

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Ok so theirs this girl who's like a 6/10 i've been talking too
anyways I don't really have interest in her she's a friend of my friend
who i started talking too and apparently she's really into and has been asking him if i lik her. Anyways I asked her to come to a social gathering I'm holding and her parents told her that she couldn't because they don't know
who i am.

Anyways I'm not worried about this chick because honestly I'd
rather just have her as a friend. But lets say I was trying to go after
this girl and be more then just "friends". what do i do in situation
like this when her parents tell her "no" because they don't know me?

EDIT: also she's not flaking they've allowed her to hang out w/ me before in public places. Her parents are just strick as hell and other people can atest to that. I don't understand why this would make it any different.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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TheGambino

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RiceandChicken said:
Is there anyway you can talk to her parents?
Don't do that, I wouldn't... Many red flags to talking to her parents, you can easily f*ck up, your motives will be clear and she could be like: wtf why did you do that?

Talking to her parents, that situation will occur soon enough if you get that girl to chase you.

Just be very patient man, I made a lot of mistakes trying to get quick results in some situations where her parents don't like me or just are very strict.

Your best bet is too be very patient, you know she already likes you or is interested so just approach her when you bump intoo her make a small quick chat, give her a little compliment be funny, kino her and ask her out for a quick drink or a walk. Be a man and escalate to a make out.

If she likes you after that 'date' she will chase you no matter what her parents think or say. She'll do the work from that point. That should be the way to meet up with her parents, not you approaching them without knowing the girl well enough.

Be patient and use the situations to bump intoo her or let her chase you. Don't be needy and clingy trying to rush everything, it's always good to go ghost on a girl anyway, if she contact you, then you can set up a date.
 

ediceneet12

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yeah I mean I don't really like this girl I was just wondering what I would do if i got into a situation like this again, apparently she really likes me though my friend told me to look at her twitter and when i did almost every 5 posts was a post about me.

I don't know why she likes me I made some huge mistakes like texting her alot, I did kino and harass her/tease her alot. Now she's been acting super weird.
 
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