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She's Ignoring Me (I'm not apologizing)

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Man this one chick that I was close to started trippin. We had a little disagreement a while ago. She was pretty sad at the fact that she didnt have a boyfriend, and all her friends seem to have found "the one", blah blah. Stupid shyt. And I basically told her it was stupid to think she'd find "the one" while she's still in high school. I should probably at the prior to the disagreement (or what ignited it), she had asked why wouldn't I go out with her and I told her she wasn't my type (which probably got her pissed becuz we had a "little fun at the movies" the week before, if u know what i mean)..

Well anyway, now she's ignoring me because of some of the statements I made towards her during the disagreement (The harshest thing I told her was "you need to get your shyt straight" and "stop being desperate", even though I was just being REAL).

And what's annoying about the fact that she is ignoring me is I have to see her twice a week. So it's like she tries to avoid eye contact. And it's so awkward and unnatural purposely trying to not look at someone ya know?

Anyone have any suggestions on what I should do? Should I apologize for being real? Or are their any DJ methods to use when someone is ignoring you? It's been 2 weeks and it's getting ridiculous.
 

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Apologize...ha good vone.

Dont lower yourself...and dont act like a d1ck when you see her...if shes ignoring you fine!

When you see her twice a week, juss say the casual "hey *name* wsup". You said whats on your mind and thats great, why apologize to her confuzed highschool drama queen azz for saying what was rational and logical at the time.

Play it cool, dont think nothing big of it. She wants to act like a little child let her.
 

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Same thing happened to me in the summer, the girl flipped over a little thing and avoided contact for about 3 weeks. Eventually, because she saw i wasn't going to apologize, she sent me a text saying she "forgave" me...right:rolleyes:


Anyway just play it cool, for some reason girls like to play this stupid game. And while you probably got her a little mad, her interest level skyrocketed after you told her she wasnt your type. Golden line right there:rockon:
 
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