Preface - this post is directed towards intermediate to advanced Don Juans
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Stimulus - "It is not because her husband is a count that he decides to seduce her, or because she is stylishly dressed, or is desired by other men - the usual reasons. He chooses her because, in her unconcious way, she has already seduced him. A bare arm, an unrehearsed laugh, a playful manner - all these have captured his attention, because none of them is contrived. Once he falls under her spell, the strength of his desire will make his subsequent maneuvers seem less calculated; he is apparently unable to help himself. And his strong emotions will slowly infect her.
The perfect victim does not have certain facial features, or the same taste in music, or similar goals in life. That is how a banal seducer chooses his targets. The perfect victim is the person who stirs you in a way that cannot be explained in words, whose effect on you has nothing to do with superficialities. He or she often has a quality that you yourself lack, and may even secretly envy. There should be a little bit of tension - the victim may fear you a little, even slightly dislike you. Such tension is full of erotic potential and will make the seduction much livelier.
Be more creative in choosing your prey and you will be rewarded with a more exciting seduction. Of course it means nothing if the potential victim is not open to your influence. Test the person first. Once you feel that he or she is also vulnerable to you, then the hunting can begin." ~ The Art of Seduction
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The whole point is to have *fun*, and I find that when I go for girls, not just because of their looks but also because of their personality, character and style, it makes the whole process so much more fun.
I'm not saying you shouldn't go for HBs - in fact the girls I go for usually are HB7 and up. But you shouldn't just go for a girl JUST based on her looks.
There has to be something *else* there, that makes it exciting. You have to really be *into* her, not just sexually lusting after her, but generally attracted to her. And I found that like the above passage said - I become *emboldened* with confidence and charisma, why? Cause she has *already* seduced me to some extent.
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Stimulus - "It is not because her husband is a count that he decides to seduce her, or because she is stylishly dressed, or is desired by other men - the usual reasons. He chooses her because, in her unconcious way, she has already seduced him. A bare arm, an unrehearsed laugh, a playful manner - all these have captured his attention, because none of them is contrived. Once he falls under her spell, the strength of his desire will make his subsequent maneuvers seem less calculated; he is apparently unable to help himself. And his strong emotions will slowly infect her.
The perfect victim does not have certain facial features, or the same taste in music, or similar goals in life. That is how a banal seducer chooses his targets. The perfect victim is the person who stirs you in a way that cannot be explained in words, whose effect on you has nothing to do with superficialities. He or she often has a quality that you yourself lack, and may even secretly envy. There should be a little bit of tension - the victim may fear you a little, even slightly dislike you. Such tension is full of erotic potential and will make the seduction much livelier.
Be more creative in choosing your prey and you will be rewarded with a more exciting seduction. Of course it means nothing if the potential victim is not open to your influence. Test the person first. Once you feel that he or she is also vulnerable to you, then the hunting can begin." ~ The Art of Seduction
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The whole point is to have *fun*, and I find that when I go for girls, not just because of their looks but also because of their personality, character and style, it makes the whole process so much more fun.
I'm not saying you shouldn't go for HBs - in fact the girls I go for usually are HB7 and up. But you shouldn't just go for a girl JUST based on her looks.
There has to be something *else* there, that makes it exciting. You have to really be *into* her, not just sexually lusting after her, but generally attracted to her. And I found that like the above passage said - I become *emboldened* with confidence and charisma, why? Cause she has *already* seduced me to some extent.