"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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She's gotten boring, and stopped chasing,as if she's won me over. How do fix this?

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gimmeyofonenumba

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She will still initate contact, but for the most part she has gotten boring, rather than trying to be more exciting and creative. Before she would always txt or call me, telling me things like she was trying to impress me. She used to compliment, and try to win me over, by describing herself as the type of person i told her i was looking for. We've had sex, been on plenty of dates. How do i fix this and get her back into the phase of having to win me over?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Return to the way you were with her, when she was chasing you.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Also interested in what one should do. Although I predict the answer may be pumpndump...I normally just start interacting with more women and if I get that bored with girlfriend, date someone else.
 
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You don't have to blow this one out. If you like her, just make yourself a scarce commodity for a bit.
 
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