She's going to flake, flake on her first?

[Frosted_Cherry]

Hey all,

Been talking to this girl on POF for a week now. Texting game has been fine. Every few days, waiting long to respond, etc. She doesn't know anything about me other then my name and what I do as a job. I wanted to save that for in person

Sunday I asked her to lunch this Saturday. She agreed. I told her I don't know the time yet, I needed to check with something but around 12-1. (I needed to see when I was going into the city later in the day). I also told her the place and where. She said that was fine

Yesterday, texted her the time and reconfirmed the place. She has not responded.

I am 90% sure she is going to flake, has happened to me a lot before and I can read them now.

My first instinct is to call it off saying since I haven't heard from her, I made other plans that day, etc. I hate when my time can be just played around with. Girls do it a lot

Good idea?

 

[GS750]

CALL HER. Chat for a bit. Get a feel for where her head is at over the phone. Texting is for setting up specific time/date for meetups, not for getting to know someone. So pick up the phone and call.

 

[Maximus Rex]

I Hope You Listen and Take the Advise

Texting game has been fine.

What the f*ck does this even mean? This makes about as sense I me telling So Suave? Hey y'all. Last night I got in at about 11:30, went to bed, and I had a good night's sleep. Sh*t is absolutely meaningless.

"Texting Kills Relationships" by Harry Wilinngton http://sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=210198

Sunday I asked her to lunch this Saturday.

Niggas and when their arrogance and narcissim never ceases to amaze me. Unless you're studying for finals or you're planning on taking your company public, you DO NOT schedule a date a week in advance, especially with a chick from the internet for the following reasons.

1) You're Not Ryan Gossling or Channing Tatum

a) This chick is literally being receiving hundreds of messages as we speak from other guys. Other guys who she may deem to be more handsome, wealthier, or in some way, shape, or fashion, may be displaying higher value than you. WHAT IN THE F*CK MAKES YOU THINK THAT MADE SUCH AN IMPRESSION ON THIS CHICK THAT SHE'S GOING TO KEEP A DATE WITH YOU (A STRANGER FROM AN INTERNET DATING SITE,) THAT WAS MADE SIX DAYS PRIOR! Don't you realize that this chick has sh*t going on in her life? Christmas presents to buy, friends to hang out with and dudes to suck and f*ck that she's meet in person. Rex STRONGLY advises that you to see this chick before Saturday and if you find that you are truly that busy, then don't schedule dates during your busy periods.

b) Chicks Are Flakey as F*ck

As I stated earlier chicks have sh*t going in their lives, but in your case, you have also facilitated this chick flaking on you. Yesterday, (when I should have been studying for finals,) I was listening to Harry Wilington's podcast about how women communicate. When baby girl "agreed," to the date with you on Saturday, at that VERY MOMENT she meant what she said, in other words she was caught up in the moment, but due to women's capricious nature, don't be surprised when Saturday rolls around and she's taking her nephews and nieces to the tree lighting in your city. You have to strike when the iron is hot with these hoes. Stop making dates to go on dates.

http://www.stoplosingwomen.com Episode 85 Stop Talking in Future Speak with Dates

I told her I don't know the time yet, I needed to check with something but around 12-1. (I needed to see when I was going into the city later in the day). I also told her the place and where. She said that was fine

http://www.stoplosingwomen.com/page/4/ Episode 59 Stop Losing Women Interview #3-Consequences of Not Having a Set Date Plan w/McKenzie

If you don't want to listen to the entire podcast, (but you definitely should listen to it in its entirety,) go to 18:39-25:00 and pay VERY CLOSE ATTENTION TO WHAT MCKENZIE IS SAYING!

Harry, I'm curious, is Frosted_Cherry the dude McKenzie was talking about?

Yesterday, texted her the time and reconfirmed the place. She has not responded.

http://www.stoplosingwomen.com/page/3/ Episode 72 Stop Calling to Re-Confirm Dates

I am 90% sure she is going to flake, has happened to me a lot before and I can read them now.

My first instinct is to call it off saying since I haven't heard from her, I made other plans that day, etc. I hate when my time can be just played around with. Girls do it a lotGood idea?

I've given you the tools needed to remedy this particular problem, so hopefully this will listen to what's being said and this will stop happening to you. Good luck.

 

[Dgwizdal]

Show up and when she flakes - wait for her to text the next day and then say "Damn, Glad you didn't show, I had something else come up and forgot to give you a heads up BUDDY"

 

[HyperAnalyze]

Just to re iterate. Small typo in Rex post. Do NOT set up dates a week in advance.

 

[Mr Wright]

Pre-emptively flaking is all well and good but at the end of the day, you're still not getting laid. Focus on that part rather than trying to one up her.