"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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She's coming to your crib !

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Gotta few questions concerning a girl which is almost your girlfriend coming to your house. Let's say she is going to stay about 2-3 hours. And its the first time ! What would you guys suggest for handling this situation ? what to do with the girl all the time ? show her every ****ing detail in the room ! show her the room and then get some coffe somewhere else ? or simply make out with her where i have to say that we didn't kiss each other yet ! I'd be glad if you have some tips for a european rookie ^^
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Is it your house? Your parents? How old are you? How old is she? What you do have worth talking about around your place? What things do you do that are interesting? What is she interested in? How long have you known her? What have you done together?

All that aside, if someone comes over here for the first time we usually just have a drink or two and talk... it's a good time to get them to tell you about themselves and start up with some light kino. Check out the conversation/kino tips in the DJB.
 
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if shes comin over she better get ready for a some d1ck suckin!

seriously just pop in some corny movie and then be like this movie sucks, hey i havent shown you my room yet... lets check it out...

Next thing ya kno you on the bed with the girl gettin freaky zeaky.
 
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