"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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She's coming over

Corndowg

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Ok, this girl i've been seeing is coming over today. We're gonna spend a couple hours afterschool together. She's been by my house a few times but with friends and stuff.

Here's the thing...she's 17 and I'm 19. She's also a total virgin. The most she's done with a person is make out with them.

This means the main goal will be somewhat out of reach.

But I still get to have her at my house for about 3 hours. What should we do to keep ourselves from being bored besides the obvious kissing stuff. Should I talk to her, should we just watch tv and talk about random stuff that comes to our heads? Any simple ideas?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Jimbo2k

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I would steer the convo to sexual, kino, see the signals she gives, somewhere in there start making out, then if the signals are right, try to advance and see how it goes - up the shirt etc...

How long have you been "seeing" her? And how is it going with her?
 

OneByOne

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you could start off with soft making out followed by long eye contact, followed by mad passionate love lol, to be honest there isnt really a formuale just do watever you want to do at the time
 

kilgoretrout

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First of all, don't watch TV. It is completely unreliable. Get a DVD player. Get a good DVD collection. I could reccomend some movie, but really just get whatever movies you want, peticularly ones that could steer your post -movie conversation to the subject of sex.

Maybe if you have a good pizza place nearby get a few silces. Then have passionate sex on the beach.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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