Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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She's coming over at 8:30 ton.....

Themanthatcan

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Ok.As of now, I've exhausted all my ideas for what to do at my house.I've talked,swam,taken walks,listened to music,watched a movie,played sports,Ect.Things are just getting really repetitive.(She's not for sure coming over but I called her and said "What are you doing at 8:30 tonight?....Call me back",already knowing she was available.)Need some help guys.New conversations,topics,games,witty jokes/remarks,ect?(I have the "make a move" part covered.)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Teflon_Mcgee

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Themanthatcan said:
Need some help guys.New conversations,topics,games,witty jokes/remarks,ect?(I have the "make a move" part covered.)
Uhhh. Make a move then!?!?

The whole Idea of "having something to do" is just a formality to get her over to make a move. You DON'T actually need anything to do.
 

THE_ADDMAN

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Teflon_Mcgee said:
Uhhh. Make a move then!?!?

The whole Idea of "having something to do" is just a formality to get her over to make a move. You DON'T actually need anything to do.

Yes! exactly.
 

Themanthatcan

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Gah..I know.I know.If she ends up over then I'll definatly make a move.There might be a problem though.My friends are coming over to hang out too.But my bro can prob. occupy them right?Everytime I give a hint at wanting some alone time she just wants to stay with the group.When we are alone it goes pretty good some nights horrible others.(when i don't make a move or the moods not right)
 
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