You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
So you're asking if the forums would spend one pump and dump night with a stripper that you never fvcked but "love". Classic.I never said I f*cked her. Just that I loved her. Raise your hand if you'd like to spend the night with this girl. This place is become an anti-seduction forum.
And for you "She's a five-rs":
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Exactly.
It sort of became 12 months as of today, now that we are back together. There was a 7 week absence while she got divorced. She became involved with a middle school boyfriend who she dated at age 13 so I couldn't blame her. She originally left him for her husband to be. There was a long history there. As Coach Corey Wayne says "Any time you know your game was tight and a girl was really into you and you lose her, it's because she became involved with someone she was more emotionally invested in."
Seriously, did you think I would publish details like that here, along with photos from yesterday?
She wasn't a stripper and I could kick your arse at pool.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Bigneil, I know looks are subjective to some extent, but that is a VERY average looking Eastern European girl. Go to Prague, Budapest, Kiev, Moscow or any major Easter European city and you will be surrounded by girls who are way hotter than her.
Needle off record. Her rating is 96% Attractive compared to other 22 year old women.
I've run the table in 8 states.
Doesn't mean squat. 8 states same state running the table is running the table. If you've been playing pool for a while and are good at it you can pretty much run a table anywhere. I've played the majority of my life with a crew of dudes who could run tables. One of them went pro. Another played vs. the Black Widow. Amsterdam Billiards. No joke.
Wait wait wait wait wait wait.............
I'm just giving you my opinion. I'm not interested in debating or proving anything to you. Out of curiosity, how much money did you spend on this girl in 12 months of not fvcking her? What do you get out it? Moral satisfaction of some kind?
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
No sex. I can't get over that. At the very least I thought he was at least getting some to make it somewhat worth while.
Provided Neil with unlimited bragging content on SS.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
What if she was 30 minutes early?
good. what i mean is that you should keep your cool 24/7. like soldiers should be ready to fight during sleeping
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
