"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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She's back - for now at least. Now what?

ematsuda

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Here's the story in a nutshell. I was seeing this young hottie. She used to text me or call most everyday when things got intimate. I drink a lot and my drunk*ss AFC behavior turned her off so she started acting distant on me and rejected a couple of my invites to take her out. She was acting busy. I cut off contact for a couple weeks hoping my backing off could make her miss me. It worked, she texted me last night to say hi and ask what I was doing. I resonded but my responses were kind of ****y. I wanna know if it's safe to ask her out again or wait till she invites me to go out (which she used to do a lot before)?

Word of advice: Drinking too much turns you into a wussbag. ALL (and there was many of them) of my AFC blunders have come when I was drunk. You'll wake up the next morning with a hangover both from drinking and AFC'ing regretting sh!t.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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ematsuda

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Good advice on the alcohol bit remote - I should've said that it does help to drink a little but don't overdo it. When I drink in moderation, I feel more relaxed and my confidence gets boosted. However when I'm drunk, I sound like a slurring horn toad with only sex on my mind.

But what do I do with the girl?
 
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