"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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styleman

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I've been seeing this girl for around a month, made out a few times, all going pretty well.
She's gone on holidays back to her home and has been messaging me every night. We talk for a bit and she seems happy to talk about whatever I'm talking about and its not that she gives closed responses, but eventually I feel like I've run out of things to say to her or as her about, and I feel it's pretty soon to be having intimacy over the phone. So, often I say I'd better sleep, when actually I have no desire to sleep nor do I want to end the conversation with her, I'm just afraid of looking 'boring'. In person We have no such issue, but just I feel over the phone it's like that with her, I don't have this problem with other friends or even possible girls I'd like to date, but with this girl when the conversation is flowing it flows very well, but then all of a sudden I feel like I have nothing left to say. Any help??
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Kenny Powers

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Damnn man this is some heavy shiit, good thing you posted here right away so we can help you solve this crisis...

is what I would have said if I gave a fuuck.

Seriously, you've been a member of this site for 6 years and have posted 327 times and you're asking this question?

My advice, delete your account and go away. You clearly can offer nothing to this forum and even after 6 years haven't learned a thing
 
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Bro, you worry to much about the dumbest sh*t.

I totally get what you're saying about running out of things to say and you don't want to seem boring. BUT, you are supplicating and are looking at it from the point of view that YOU need to ENTERTAIN!!

Don't worry about that sh*t, if you're texting a girl and its getting dull just say, "ok, i'll holler at you later" thats all!!!! You don't need to be an entertainer every freaking minute! Relax.
 
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