"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Shes annoying

Remulak

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This chick i was dating LJBFs me so I move on. I run into her at a bar one night and she says how i hate her and shyt and how she tries to be my friend. I basically said no i don't hate you, I said happy birthday to her a couple days ago. We joked around for a bit but acted like a jerk. 99.9% of the time i talk to her and keep my distance. My question is what does she want from me. She ljbfed me but acts like i should still be going out of my way to have a conversation with her.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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guitarmatt18

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she still has this idea in her mind that you are still hers but we all know thats absolutely not true... i guarantee you she thinks you hate her because you dont call her or talk to her as much... but it was her choice so thats why you are confused... you acting like a jerk to her and keeping your distance showed her you didn't need her one bit... which told her... maybe she made a wrong decision seeing what the confident, independant man she had... she semi-wants you back...
 

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Goddamn dames!

I'm going through this same crap, only instead of being a jerk to her most of the time, I broke it up with extreme bouts of depression and bltch behaviour. Real attractive stuff.

But yeah, everytime I distanced myself from her, she'd cry "you hate me!". Couldn't get rid of her. She says she likes me, but fvcking would be awkward. She doesn't hide the fact that she's attracted to me very well, but she won't give me what I want in order to keep me happy.

I have no idea what to do either. Right now I'm just dropping the shields and letting whatever happens happen. No effort on my part to stick around or leave.
 
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