"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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She's an odd one.

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So, this is my first post, I'm a decent guy, with not much problems with girls, but this one is not going as planned.

Anyways, there's this girl I'm going for but she is absolutely clueless about anything involving guys and is just terribly shy around them. I'm thinking this is because over last summer she lost the last 10 pounds, braces gone, acne gone, glasses gone and she went from 3 to 7.5, and for the first time in her life, is getting attention.

In person she always acts so awkward "nice", that super friendly nice that's so nice its almost annoying, most of her friends are ****-blocks, and its hard to get an opportunity alone. Any time we hang out she makes an excuse to leave after a bit, usually right before i was going to make a move, but she still acts flirty the next day, and wont make an effort to avoid me.

What should my strategy be to get her or escalate something ?

Ignoring for a while doesn't make a difference, and anything sexual she'll just change the subject.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I think your right. I'll go for it the next chance I can. If it doesn't work out, I can say I tried and move on to better without wondering about the what ifs.
 
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