"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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"She's a *****"

rain63

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I approached a 2set the other night... got to talking, running some material etc... and somewhere along the line one of the girls says the other one is a b!tch... I just laugh it off and say "well, thats OK because i'm a bit of a d!ck sometimes myself." I really had no idea what to make of this... any ideas?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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AKA FLEX

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The chick who said that wanted your man meat. Why else would she talk s--- about a friend? Assuming she was up to your standards, you should have f-closed her post-haste.
 

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Thats good to know... HAHA, but she was too tall for me.
 

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I would have said something to the other one like "does she always insult you in front of new people like that?" but in a joking way.
 
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