"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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shes a little taller than me lol

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do you think its weird to be serious with a girl who is taller than you! i am starting to get serious with a girl at the minute and i think shes a little taller than me! not much tho!i usually wear my cowboy boots so i look a little taller than her but i think in bare feet she may be about a cm taller!??
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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It's only an issue if you make it an issue.

Don't.
 

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My FB is 6ft tall and I am 5'6ft....so I think ONE cm is nowhere compare to mine but you know what...its not an issue for me but when I look at the mirror when I am next to her, I kinda feel a lil small. But anywhere else its ok I don't give a fuk at all.

She may be a lil uncomfortable about it so we kept the thing as discreet as possible but we still have a lot of fun.
 

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If she is ridiculously taller maybe you'd look funny but 1cm? This isn't an issue.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Rudy_TubeSteak said:
My FB is 6ft tall and I am 5'6ft....so I think ONE cm is nowhere compare to mine but you know what...its not an issue for me but when I look at the mirror when I am next to her, I kinda feel a lil small. But anywhere else its ok I don't give a fuk at all.

She may be a lil uncomfortable about it so we kept the thing as discreet as possible but we still have a lot of fun.

I had the same situation before with a tall girl and I am you the same height is you.

People will look at you guys when you are out, but an Alpha Male does not care about that! BTW, you can always keep her lying down.
 

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i'm about 5'8 r so i duno ive never measured myself! but i defo think shes a little taller in flats! not sure though!! anyways it shouldnt be a problem!! im just after a good nite out and ive had a few drinks and pulled a few women so she can come and get me whenever she wants to...im not gonna be running after her!!!:cheer:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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my ex gf was taller than me. i am 5'8" she was 6 or something. didn't bother us one bit. but i still prefer to be taller. don't we all?
 
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