"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hello all, i've been looking around in the forums for quite awhile now and read the DJ Bible and everything... But I'm still confused on what to do in my situation.

I've been talkin' to this HB 9 girl inclass from the beginning of school until we were seperated because we talked to each other to much. Now she had dropped me a few 'hints' that told me she was interested. For Example, everytime i threw a 'neg-hit' at her, she'd reply back with one herself and would giggle. She also responded to the 'light kino' i had done to her (like putting my feet next to hers) and she didnt back away, she just kept a smile on her face and kept talking to me. All was starting to look good and it seemed we always wanted to talk to one another. However, I started to question whether she saw me as just a friend or a possible 'significant other'.

One day when I walked into class and took my seat ( we weren't moved away from each other yet), I looked to my right and saw that she looked like a mess. So I turned to her and said "Nice day huh. I got a ticket on the way to school today, and I didn't get any studying done for all the tests.." And she responded "Yeah, today sucks. I feel sick.". "Oh yea?". "Yeah, and on top of that, I broke up with my boyfriend." (at this point i froze and looked into her eyes trying to read if what she said was a lie). She had gone out with the same guy for about a year and although he was shorter than her, they both seemed inseperable (I guess not). So I took a 'beat' and put the surprised look on my face and she looked into my eyes without blinking. "Really? So what happened?!.. HOW?" I asked. She looked away and then looked back at me. "Well, I dunno...". (and oddly enough, after she had said that, she SMILED...?). So I thought to myself, alright I'll lighten up the mood. I made a few jokes and made her smile, she seemed to have forgotten all about it.

Now here comes my problem. A few weeks ago we were seperated from each other because we talked to much. Sometimes if we both got out of the class at the same time we'd walk and talk through the hallway. But lately, she seems to have been avoiding me (in some weird way). Occasionaly i'd catch her glancing at me and I'd smile and motion "wasup" to her, and she'd laugh and blush and look down. And i know i shouldn't really mind about this, but it seems as though she's back with her boyfriend. I know they had already broken up before, and their interest lvls (if they're back together) would be awfully low. I can't help but notice all the "signs" she threw at me. My mind repeats her voice saying "Igottaprobmang, steal me away!". I got her phone number already ( but sadly enough, i got it because we chose to be partners for a class project). I dont know how to go about this... Any tips? One thing i do find really disturbing is that... She's taller than me.


PS: sorry about the title, its to catch everyone's attention.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Yeah, that caught my attention. Disappointing...always post a picture for the sake of the title, please!

APPROACH HER. You've been also avoiding her....
 

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First, you disappointed me with the title. I was hoping as I went, she broke up with her bf because she like also had a gf but it just didn't happen. We have a problem in our Jr. High with Bi Chicks and it never can be the hot ones:cuss:

Anyways, I don't know how to put this and not sure why I am wasting my time saying it but its true. Stay single, its much more fun. I went through a similar thing last Winter and it may seem the grass is greener on the other side but really you will be happier single. I am. I got a couple chicks that like me, and I toy with them enough to keep them liking me and stuff and flirt with whoever I want when I want. Not saying I wouldn't get ****ed if someone nice looking cam along but don't see that happening.

Just, if you remember, girls are more trouble than they are worth and find out about pichunter you will be better off.

Kegger
 

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LOL. Nice title.

It seems you both dont know each other well. Try to set up a date with her and then get things started from there. Trust me, you do not want to over think the situation, you'll end up hesitating. And hesitation is every man's enemy.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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damn you i read the the entire thing.

well. at least she likes shorter guys. be aggressive, the relationship is dying.
 

Michele l'Arcangelo

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dude dude dude... listen to me... she broke up with him for you.

get her now

dont get clingy.. just play it cool like you have been.

and play with her some... make her want you!

go now... don't get on here again... until she accepts or rejects.
 
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yo nice title man totaly drew me in before i could post my good news (wow thats a change for this forum) hell i say call her and take her to the most casual place u can think of (if movies do casual dinner before) the reson for super casual is so she can chill just start talking say u havent had a chance to talk to her for awhile and u want to catch up
 
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o and i agree w/ the dude above my first post kinda

her dumping him had sumthing to do w/ u
 

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I'd like to thank everyone for their help, I did read it and did follow through. I have just recently asked her to have lunch with me and she totally jumped on it with flying colors. I have a date. Thankyou again.

Its time for the fun to begin. :)
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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haha, rat bastard I read all the way to the end waiting for it.
 

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firstly, nice title, it certainly got my attention cos i was trying to look through the article about the lesiban bit.
Secondly, women are not attracted to men who are shorter than them unless you are a master DJ, so if you are good at DJing, then go for it.
IF you are not, then i suggest move on.
 

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Again with the negative comment Zerotwoonenine. Did you not read what he wrote about her having dated a shorter guy.

Dont listen to Zerotwonenine, he is either an idiot who thinks he is a master DJ or a feminist whom tries to bring everyone down with his negative comments.
 

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Secondly, women are not attracted to men who are shorter than them unless you are a master DJ.....If you are not, then i suggest move on.
Yeah...you are so full of fvcking shiit. I'm actually short, therefore I fail. Fag.

More trash talking from a noob :down:
 
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