"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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She's a flayer and I want to disconnect, how?

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Ok, as it goes, This is the first girl that I've genuinly got some feeling for, she came over from France, and has been setting up her business for last month or so since I've known her, initially we had good chemistry, She's really smart and proactive.

And then AFC's started to roam the field, and she's using a lot of guys to get what she wants, and putting almost every guy in Friendzone, and I want to eject..

as I I feel like being with her all the time, and she is taking advantage of this, and knowing my DJ rule of thumb, I can't be the one taken advantage of..

However, she has House party coming up in two weeks, Should I go? Should I use her connections to make more friends? or Should I next her big time?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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