Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Shes a DJ too

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Theres this girl who i really like, and shes really great and has an awsome personality. I try to be a DJ around, but the thing is she acts like one around me too. It sounds weird but anytime i talk to her, she uses the exact same DJ tactics on me that i use on her. I really want to attract her but its hard to hold a conversation and its really frustrating when she does the DJ thing around me. how should i go about seducing her?
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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****y funny + Negs...it sounds like shes a little better than you, dont let her figure that out. Set the pace, set the mood, be the one to do things first.
 

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For some reason i'm attracted to female DJ's too.

Something about them just makes them really attractive.

They'll pull C and F on me, PERFECT kino. Ah man... Sometimes i like that.
 

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U sure it isn't some DJ that had a sex change? :p
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Jus play it cool, If she knows ure a dj, then suddenly u go off the track an start moddin ure dj moves, then she wont be sure wat ure doin
Try an intrigue her, or do specific things an see if she mirrors them back, try out ****, an get experience cus if u can pull a dj chick, then u can defo pul sum random gurrrrl!
 

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Originally posted by CrazyAsianBiker
For some reason i'm attracted to female DJ's too.

Something about them just makes them really attractive.

They'll pull C and F on me, PERFECT kino. Ah man... Sometimes i like that.
I concur. You got game+ they got game= fun times

You both know the moves each other is pulling. Its kinda like chess between two good players. Someone will win eventually, but in this case itll be both of you.
 

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female dj ripped out my heart in freshman year. hahahaha watchout for those hoes. yeah loves a war and your up against an oponent who knows what shes doing.
 

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A female DJ?
what female needs DJ tactics? lol. some, i guess...
how often do u all encounter female djs?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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its called a female player.
I've encountered one on my quest.
damn shes so much fun to get with.
but shes not any better than I.
yesterday she was liek "hey you're in my house. you do what i say."
and i said "ok. i'm leaving." imagine a girl jumping across her bed, grabbing you by the arm and saying "i was just kidding. sit down please.":D
 

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Originally posted by Patrick124
its called a female player.
I've encountered one on my quest.
damn shes so much fun to get with.
but shes not any better than I.
yesterday she was liek "hey you're in my house. you do what i say."
and i said "ok. i'm leaving." imagine a girl jumping across her bed, grabbing you by the arm and saying "i was just kidding. sit down please.":D
Nice! you must have her totally whipped
 

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Originally posted by saber101
Nice! you must have her totally whipped
haha its a possibility. but she is also a teasy-girl. she'll get those long moments of eye contact,a dn when i pull ehr over, she'll turn away. typing this jsut made me realize that currently she hold the "we hookup when I want to" card. fvck that. lol
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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