"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Shes 28 Im 19!

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She said : Yes im serious, what makes you think im not?
I said : Well for one your definatley a tease....
She said : Well i really want you here ( in that sleepy voice)

Notice she didn't say anything about the tease when you put it on her. Most women would have something to say IMO. Either get mad, or say.. Where did you get that from?

The well I really want you here (in that sleepy voice) line to me was a way of avoiding more of a conversation about that.

Well, she really wants you there, and other guys she flirts with too. I'd personally WANT a response if I said that. Not another line, but are you, or aren't you a tease?

I mean maybe, just MAYBE she is only interested in you, then great, but you need more than what she gives you.

My point is, i've got taken like that too (not age wise) but a girl says...I want you to be here right now, and we'll be chatting online, and what not, and she says she cant wait to see me. This was my GIRLFRIEND at the time.

She said MANY things like that, but turned out she was behind my back which I should have caught earlier.

Now i'm not saying yours in like this, but I only thought it happened to other people, and it happened to me.

Just keep an eye on this one, and really test her. I do that now more than ever cause i'm not going to be played again. And if they dont like how I do it, so be it. I want a loyal woman.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Omen said:
She said : Yes im serious, what makes you think im not?
I said : Well for one your definatley a tease....
She said : Well i really want you here ( in that sleepy voice)

Notice she didn't say anything about the tease when you put it on her. Most women would have something to say IMO. Either get mad, or say.. Where did you get that from?

The well I really want you here (in that sleepy voice) line to me was a way of avoiding more of a conversation about that.

Well, she really wants you there, and other guys she flirts with too. I'd personally WANT a response if I said that. Not another line, but are you, or aren't you a tease?

I mean maybe, just MAYBE she is only interested in you, then great, but you need more than what she gives you.

My point is, i've got taken like that too (not age wise) but a girl says...I want you to be here right now, and we'll be chatting online, and what not, and she says she cant wait to see me. This was my GIRLFRIEND at the time.

She said MANY things like that, but turned out she was behind my back which I should have caught earlier.

Now i'm not saying yours in like this, but I only thought it happened to other people, and it happened to me.

Just keep an eye on this one, and really test her. I do that now more than ever cause i'm not going to be played again. And if they dont like how I do it, so be it. I want a loyal woman.

Yes ofcourse Omen, She already admitted to me that she was a tease she said she just likes to tease me more........ But Omen How can I test her more??????
 

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Personally I think the games need to stop and you should mention that to her. Up your age a bit, and maybe come across as an OLDER guy. Older guys dont like games.

Again I am in the opposite situation age wise as you, but I dont play games with her, and though she is young, she really doesn't play games with me. We trash talk on one another for fun, but I can PROMISE you, that how I talk to this one girl and how she talks back to me, that she doesn't do that with everyone. And she knows too I dont do it to everyone. I would get pissed if she talked to all 15 other guys I work with, like she spoke to me. Or I'd be mad if I knew she was spending hours with others talking to them.

But I know that i've been the only guy she spent 4.5hrs with one day talking too after work.

I would suggest telling her you dont put up with girls that are a tease. I dont anyway, and I pay damn attention to it too. Of course I am at work, but if I found one that said what she said to you, then found out she may be saying it to everyone else, its either me, or i'm gone.

So again, stop the game playing, and if you have too, down right ask her what it is she is really after.

I'm not one for games, and you shouldn't be either. Again I am 28, and you aren't, but they aren't for me. You either want me or you dont. Not want me, and then want 15 other guys, and tease me, and tease 15 other guys.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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