"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
shes 14.
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
penkitten
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I was going to use that a week ago when I was at this party. This girl I work with was bringing her boyfriend, and she just turned 16 in May. Anyway, she THINKS I want to steal her, but I dont. I think she is cute, so be it. Anyway her man is 21 I think, and she's like... We've been dating for 2yrs. So I was thinking... 14 and he was 19.comic_relief said:
So I was hoping he'd give me **** so I could go... Didnt I see you on Dateline? But damn he didnt give me **** so I couldn't do it. lol.
I told her look.... I'm not trying to steal you from your man, and my last gf was a Dr. I dont want to date you at 16, so you can tell him not to worry. I told her that after she stopped talking to me at work.
She's like... I dont mind talking as long as its just friend talk. I was like... why would you think otherwise? She goes... I'm just saying. Then I told her the above about....look, your 16, I dont date 16yr olds.
But yeah, even though 3yrs is not bad, if she isn't legal, then forget it at 17. Some states, 16 is legal, and even if you dont sleep with them, its that whole deal about women being women, and how easy it would be for them to claim something you did even if you didnt do it, if they weren't of age.
You're screwed more that way then if she is legal. Not that she would do that, but have you ever heard the story where guy pisses young girl off, she claims rape, and cause she is under 16, you're FVCKED regardless is you touched her or not?
I know, sad world, but it usually their word that is taken. And i'm not saying all do that, but its just best you dont put yourself in that situation.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
penkitten
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Grand Wizzard Alamar
Master Don Juan
If you can think of more bad things that could happen than good things, you don't need that sh!t.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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Because 6 year olds are not sexually mature. Stop trolling.cyraid said:
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Is it going to boost your ego and your self image to date a 14 year old?Elti Boi said:
I'm warning you that most 14-year-old-girls are a pain in the ass. They want constant attention and they have minimum experience sexually.
Supremo
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The Peta-File
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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because they're out of my league..... i'm too afraid to approach them.cyraid said:
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lol.cyraid said:
you should wait, once shes 15 or 16 it wont be that bad. but at the moment 14/17 is just too mcuh. once you get older age difference becomes less of a big deal.
my advice is the same as most other people here. next.
The hottest girl I ever had sex with was 15 when I was 17. I'm 21 and only a few girls have come close. Definitely go for it while you're young. When she's under 18, never go more than 3 years younger than yourself and she better be consenting to your moves.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.